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Unwinding practice day for craniosacral therapists

Whole body fascial unwinding week-end workshops is for craniosacral therapists, osteopaths, physiotherapists and massage therapists. This can be done as a Day of practice with myself now. The day practice is only for people who have done unwinding and to strengthen their skill of unwinding. It will be run in north London and depending on how many people will be attending. This is a day of CPD (6 to 7 hours).

Price is 95 pounds paid via bank transfer. Contact me directly for this. The day will be led only by me

The week end with in October 2023 is gone, but other opportunities can come.

The day will be only for therapists who already know the unwinding.

Below is the week end of October 2023 plan.

What therapists said about this course

“Thank you for the lovely healing weekend, I feel more confident with unwinding”

” Thank You and Douglas for this amazing week-end, I learned a lot, applied some techniques to my clients this morning”

Demonstration of head unwinding

What fascia unwinding will do for your clients and amazing Fascia unwinding can indeed be approached as an active form of meditation. Meditation is a practice that involves focusing the mind and cultivating a state of present-moment awareness. It can be done in various ways, and fascia unwinding can serve as a unique and engaging form of active meditation.

During a fascia unwinding session, the practitioner or individual actively engages with their body and the sensations that arise.

The gentle movements that their system will do naturally when they are engaged will allow their mind, to stop thinking and the movements will distract them from being in their cycle of thoughts.

Here are some aspects of fascia unwinding that align with the principles of active meditation:

1. Body awareness: Fascia unwinding encourages individuals to tune into their body’s sensations, such as tightness, warmth, or subtle shifts. This heightened body awareness brings attention to the present moment and helps anchor the mind in the physical experience. For the body this can be used for trauma, frozen shoulders, injuries once they are healed, to allow the fascia to let go of holding on, emotional and mental blocks and energetic toxic release. Somato Emotional Release of possible feelings and emotions trapped in an area of the body, joints, from childhood. Amazing on baby’s trauma and on children with anxiety.

2. Focused attention: During fascia unwinding, practitioners often concentrate on specific areas of the body, observing the sensations and changes that occur. This focused attention on the physical sensations can help still the mind and cultivate a state of mindfulness.

click here for a different person of head unwinding

3. Breath awareness: Conscious breathing is a fundamental aspect of many meditation practices. In fascia unwinding, individuals are often encouraged to engage in deep, mindful breathing, which can enhance relaxation, promote body-mind connection, and support the unwinding process.

4. Non-judgmental observation: In active meditation, the practice involves observing experiences without judgment or attachment. Similarly, during fascia unwinding, individuals are encouraged to observe sensations, emotions, and thoughts that arise without labelling them as good or bad.

This non-judgmental attitude fosters acceptance and cultivates a sense of presence.

click here to see 1st video of shoulder fascial unwinding on a person that worked with the arms a lot as an artist and stressed about study (Maria Esposito video), the unwinding is intense as their nervous system has been like that for many years.

Click here to see the head unwinding sample (Maria Esposito Video)

5. Release of tension: As fascia unwinding helps release physical tension and restrictions in the body, it can also contribute to the release of mental and emotional tension. By actively engaging in the unwinding process, individuals may experience a sense of letting go, relaxation, and a clearer state of mind.

Engaging in fascia unwinding as an active meditation practice can provide numerous benefits. It allows individuals to cultivate a deeper connection with their bodies, release stress and tension, and promote overall well-being.

Overall, fascia unwinding can serve as an engaging and beneficial active meditation practice, providing an avenue for cultivating mindfulness, body awareness, and emotional support.

Maria Esposito BSc (Hons) bio: Working from my heart is my main way of working, which opens up the heart of everyone I work with! I work with a sound scientific background with the healing and spiritual intuition within all my sessions, from nutritional NAET working with allergies, over-reaction to food, hay-fever and more, to craniosacral therapy for babies and mothers trauma, colic and more, adult trauma, tiredness and feeling out of space, to empowering my clients with Neuro Linguistic programming, Mindfulness meditation exercises (becoming present in your life at all times)!Mostly I connect with the heart of babies and people, to find the best solution for their problem, if my therapies are not enough then or the person needs to be signposted to another therapy I will. Quite often people already have seen many therapists and hence they manage to find me at the end.

“I know for the scientific background that our brain is capable of healing ourselves, and this is the greatest gift of being human, finding one of the many possible solutions for the person coming into my sessions, is part of that!” 

All practical workshop:

The entire workshop will be a deep and experiential way of healing yourself and your clients with various tools. Note down how you feel at least a day before the workshop starts eg: Physically, mentally, spiritually (if in tune with it), is your life stuck somewhere for work, family or play? note down as much as possible. As this workshop will be an amazing healing time for you as a person and therapists, you will be asked to note down how you feel at the end of it, and two weeks after.

Price for both is 95 pounds paid via bank transfer to Maria Esposito TSB  code 308472 account 24603860

Invoice and CPD will be emailed.

Payments via pay-pal is £ 5.00 extra, any request of payment in this way, just email me and I will email you an invoice through pay-pal.

New: Support Facebook craniosacral therapy group just copy and paste to see what is about, any craniosacral therapists including students can join: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1367031110649058/

Without movement, there is no growth

Without love, there is no peace

Without awareness, there is no true path

Without light, there is only darkness

Without peace, there is no healing

Without Earth, there is no human

Without soul, there is only physical body and no humanity

Without forgiveness, there is no peace

Without opening our mind, there is no awareness

When we open our eyes, mind, ears and heart and speak our truth to ourselves and others, there is understanding, awareness, forgiveness, peace and an INFINITE AMOUNT OF LOVE. Ariami Marpisa 08/11/2018

© Maria Esposito BSc (Hons) R-Nutritional Therapist – NAET for allergies – R-Craniosacral Therapist – NLP – Angel Guide Certified – Mindfulness Meditation teacher- Resilient heart (heart-Math) (trauma tools) – Certificate for Trauma –

New: Support Facebook craniosacral therapy group just copy and paste to see what is about, any craniosacral therapists including students can join: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1367031110649058/

Wellbeing days for corporate

I am now offering wellbeing days or half days for corporate companies, who would like to offer weekly or monthly well being days, where staff can ask questions about nutrition for themselves (20 minutes each) and mindfulness meditation of 45 minutes for lunch time or have a craniosacral therapy day, where stuff and managers can relax deeply for half an hour!

Prices for half day 4 hours (this include 3 hours of asking questions from staff and 45 minutes group mindfulness meditation). £ 400.00 to be paid in advance by bank transfer.

Full day 6 hours and 30 minutes (including 45 minutes of mindfulness group meditation at lunch time for stuff) £ 650.00 to be paid in advance of the day by bank transfer.

The above can also be a full day or half day of 30 minutes of craniosacral therapy for the entire stuff. click here to read more what craniosacral therapy can do for your people.

Contact Maria Esposito BSc (Hons) via email or phone to arrange the day.

These days will help priceless for the health of your staff health, as well as the company will benefit from their people being well looked after, with a reduction of stress (from the meditations) and support from their well being, their staff will become more efficient and productive. This is a win – win situation!

Maria Esposito TSB code 308472 account 24603860. Email me if you make this payment to esposito_m@yahoo.co.uk

© Maria Esposito BSc (Hons) R-Nutritional Therapists – NAET – R-Craniosacral therapist – PCI NLP Coaching programme – Certified Angel Guide – Mindfulness Meditation teacher – HeartMath meditation -Certified Clinical Trauma Professional (CCTP) – Trauma certification (PESI) – MBant – M-CSTA – CHNC registered

Healing yourself, healing your children, healing the world!

It is never too late to heal your birth trauma and intergenerational trauma

The more I do this wonderful job, the more I know that you can heal yourself at any time. Your birth trauma or the imprint of the trauma from your great-grandparents, what ever happened that is still in your, you can heal it. You just need to say yes to that, be ready for it and let go, transmute it all to a love in the world! How wonderful is that!

You can start from nutrition, or you can start from the energetic field, or from your mental or emotional field, as long as you start. Be prepared that letting go of your old patterns might be hard or irritating, but once you start, it is worth your journey!

You can learn from your babies or children in letting go. Babies are amazingly quick at letting go if giving the right field to move in and let go. They are full of inner wisdom and they use it when they get the chance of letting go of things that no longer serve them. By connecting my system to the baby system they usually let me know if it is a body restriction or discomfort, or pressure or is due to lactose overload or just need less stress around them and worry. They love animals as the animals know how to calm their own system and make the baby fill calm and loved. Now parents need that too, and the baby usually know. They make sure that the parents look for help for them, so that they can relax and no worry so much. Children are the same they need few sessions and their system remember how to calm down and be playful.

It is true adults will take a bit more to let go, and it is ok, we all need more time to let go, when all our lives have been carrying a big luggage, and that luggage gets bigger and bigger the more we hold on to it. We might carry our ancestors luggage as well sometimes, without us knowing it. So, shine the light to whatever dark spot you have and is restricting your movement and start healing yourself, healing your children, healing the world!

Another wonderful message from the Universe:

“A good positive body or armour on your body start with: “Be proud of yourself and tell yourself that, even if nobody else does, find positive things in life that you can put your energy and mind as well. Turn the no into yes in living your life well. Look after yourself, see the positive learning in any situations, even the worse when appropriate and in the right time. Invite positive energy around you and in your home!”

© Maria Esposito BSc (Hons) R-Nutritional Therapist – NAET for allergies – R-Craniosacral Therapist – PCI NLP health coach – Angel Guide Certified – Mindfulness Meditation teacher- Resilient heart for trauma (heart-Math) – Certificate for Trauma – Advanced DBS –

Nervous system and polyvagal balance with craniosacral therapy

The polyvagal nerve, is part of the nervous system and the nervous system is part of the brain that will give signal when things are ok and when they are not. In some cases, in adults with childhood trauma, can all of the sudden experience stress related episodes with no recollection of when and where that happen. For most people the talking therapy will be good when they know what the problem or issue are, and often they are resolved. But some stress response or trauma will not be reached just by the conscious mind, or it will take months or even years before you can reach it.

Often traumas from childhood are stored in our body or even cells, and those unconscious traumas, can be triggered at any time in the life of the adults. Quite often with a body injury or illness. Craniosacral therapy allows the body system to feel safe enough to show the trauma, big or small, at the time that the person is ready to deal with, usually when they feel safe enough to share or deal with whatever emotion is attached to that trauma. With mindfulness meditation and heart meditation, the person has a tool to be able to connect with their heart and deal with whatever comes up in a loving space. My work is to connect to my heart and the person heart to reach a stillness where anything is possible, and any healing is allowed to happen in a loving experience. Craniosacral therapy, does not force any trauma out without the person being ready. That is the magical part of this wonderful therapy.

Craniosacral therapy is the only one that will help the nervous system to feel calm, relaxed and safe enough to be able to reach that stress trigger and allow the person to deal with it in a more gentle and compassionate way.

Sometimes the trigger of stress is just that, too many things to deal with and no enough time to deal with them apart from night time, when all is quite and the body does nothing. This means that the stress mode or emotions and feeling can be address, even though the person wants to sleep, they do not manage to sleep well and hence is a catch 22. They feel tired during the day, irritated, get busy and drink coffee, teas, or even worse Bull, which is an equivalent of 4 coffees in a can.

Craniosacral therapy, allows the brain to calm down enough and allow the person to deal with whatever situation they are conflicting with or need to deal with during the day, rather than night time, allowing the person to start having more sleep and be more productive in a day time. For me craniosacral therapy is a bit of magical touch, where the person can enter a state of deep relaxion, without too much effort and getting in touch with their inner wisdom and higher self!

© Maria Esposito BSc (Hons) R-Nutritional Therapists – NAET – R-Craniosacral therapist – PCI NLP Coaching programme – Certified Angel Guide – Mindfulness Meditation teacher – HeartMath meditation -Certified Clinical Trauma Professional (CCTP) – Trauma certification (PESI) – MBant – M-CSTA – CHNC registered

Brain waves!

  • Delta wave (0 to 4 Hz). This is the wave of deep sleep and it is also found in people who are in touch with the nonlocal mind, even when they are awake. This is the brain of meditators, monks, healers and some therapists who work with any type of energy. In this state the eyes will not move as people will be in a deep state of calmness and/or in deep sleep.
  • Theta wave. Theta is light sleep (4 to 8HZ). This is the wave when we remember our dreams, the time of waking from the deep sleep, usually and normally in the morning before we wake up. Theta is the time of rapid eye movement (REM) and the one that will be triggered when there is a recollection of good or bad experiences. Quite often during my sessions, many people go into a Theta wave time.
  • Alpha wave (8 to 12 Hz) is the state of relaxed alertness. Alpha connects the thinking mind of beta and the associated mind of gamma with the two lowest frequency brain waves, Theta (4 to 8 Hz) and delta (0 to 4 Hz). Alpha waves, form a bridge between the high frequencies of beta and gamma and the low of theta and delta. When this is active then the brain is in perfect state with no monkey business, low anxiety and a state of presence and Awakened mind. Monks, healers, therapist who do healing have all high amount of alpha wave and are in a state of awakened mind. Alpha wave are the ones in the middle of the spectrum of waves. The alpha bridge creates a link between the high frequencies above and the low frequencies below. This might be also the wave most used by medium and people who channel energy that cannot be felt by most people, as high frequencies cosmic beings. Alpha bridge also connects the conscious and unconscious mind. In this state we see the reality as a false truth and the truth is all but what we think we know.
  • Beta wave (12 to 40 Hz). Divided into two parts, the high beta wave is the monkey mind (15 to 40 Hz). This type is typically the mind of a person who is anxious, frustrated, angry and under stress. Usually connected to anger, fear, blame, guilt and shame. This type of high beta will shut down the thinking brain, the frontal cortex, the rational brain, memory and decision making.
  • Low beta is the one that will make our body function automatically, the sensorimotor rhythm frequency (SMR, from 12 to 15 Hz). Normal level of this beta wave is good, as helps us to process information in a straight line. Stress will cause the high beta, above 25HZ.
  • Gamma wave flow from the front to the back of the brain at 40 times per seconds (highest brain wave frequency (40 to 100 Hz). This is highest at times of learning, making associations from many different parts of the brains. Monks have a high gamma waves, especially after meditations. In one research when the monks added the feeling of compassion to their meditation, the gamma waves went very high. When the each wave starts flaring up, billions of neurons are shot and high levels of intellectual function, creativity, integration, and feeling in the zone. I remember one article that I read, where Richard Branson was interviewed and he mentioned that the most ideas came to him when he was in his hammock. In that state of relaxation but not completely asleep. Elon Mask is another one that has probably a natural state of bliss in some way and hence ideas come to him as well in similar way.

When I work with babies, I usually see them going into a state of bliss and brain wave that is a state where they will allow me to get to the point of hurt and unbalance, for the physical or energetic. This is an amazing way of healing for them, through craniosacral therapy and healing. From birth to adulthood. This is a gift of life as they will start their journey without restricted body and mind, there is a sense of going with on the river of life with a calm state of mind from the start. Quite often the parents that take their babies and children to have sessions of craniosacral therapy are already in the path of healing themselves!

From the Book “Mind to Matter” by Dawson Church (2018). Hayhouse publisher USA.

© Maria Esposito BSc (Hons) R-Nutritional Therapists – NAET – R-Craniosacral therapist – PCI NLP Coaching programme – Certified Angel Guide – Mindfulness Meditation teacher – HeartMath meditation -Certified Clinical Trauma Professional (CCTP) – Trauma certification (PESI) – MBant – M-CSTA – CHNC registered

Importance of probiotics from birth to 2 years old. Foundation for health

How do you get a baby to have a healthy gut bacteria?

We start from the beginning, from the mother if it is a vaginal birth and if the mother has taken good bacteria or made her own good bacteria from scratch and take it, such as kefir, and any other healthy method. Even though by making it yourself might stop the variety of bacteria itself to grow, hence tried and tested the one that are multi-billion and there is a difference, more of them stay in the intestinal tract. The vaginal once are different from some of the intestinal tract, hence a variety is best. Some mothers might have more yeast and hence that might be what the baby will get.

Lots of new research now have shown that the intestinal tract is involved and connected to the health of the brain, from birth.

The good bacteria, are connected to the health of: digestion, immune system, sleep, brain development; making Vitamin K , detoxification and much more that we do not know yet.

How do babies we acquire it?

  • Mother Vaginal microbes if healthy.
  • From mother skin bacteria.
  • Taking extra Bifidus at birth after two weeks from birth, as intestinal tract starts to close the gaps, forming the tight junctions and making lactase enzymes to digest the lactose from the milk.

Baby receives food for forming bacteria, the colostrum for the first few days of feeding from mother orally via breast feeding . Studies now have shown that the first 2 years of life are essential for the colonization of the intestinal tract and that would be the permanent microbiome foundation for the rest of their life.

Intestinal bacteria have been shown to be connected with the healthy brain development and positive cognitive behaviour in a child and adult later on. So very essential for the healthy development of the child.

Human milk has complex sugars not absorbed by the gut, but its main function is to feed the bacteria and modify pathogens by adhering to them.

Probiotics –In healthy babies when the mother has taken probiotics and the birth has been natural and the baby has been breastfed, probiotics not as essential – I would suggest it with C-section babies due to antibiotics and no vaginal birth. Water birth as well and/or mother had to take antibiotics during pregnancy.

I use usually Optibac babies drops (Kosher as well) or sachets, Biocare Bifidus infantis or Solgar bifidus infantis. Bio-kult infantis

(picture from Nutrients 2019. Nutrition Gaps and Supplementation in first 1000 days of life. Katrina Beluska-Turkan et al).

© Maria Esposito BSc (Hons) R-Nutritional Therapists – NAET – R-Craniosacral therapist – PCI NLP Coaching programme – Certified Angel Guide – Mindfulness Meditation teacher – HeartMath meditation -Certified Clinical Trauma Professional (CCTP) – Trauma certification (PESI) – MBant – M-CSTA – CHNC registered

Baby’s Tongue tie consequence

I have worked with babies for the past 12 years with craniosacral therapy, and recently I have seen more babies with tongue tie than before. I am not sure if the problem has increased or there is more awareness now of the problem.

In 2019, I know that many mothers choose for some reason or another, to bottle fed their baby. So, it might be that mothers did not have enough support to understand or even check that the baby did not have a tongue tie.

Now the problem with the baby having the tongue tie, start with the baby, having more colic than others, with painful, explosive poos. The baby may start get rigid legs, wriggle a lot or trying to put their knees up to get a bit of relief from their bloating belly.

Tongue-tie (you see a frenulum, a white thick extra collagen thread) is considered genetic and or congenital. The image below is quite severe, the tie does not have to be that severe to cause the same problems. It is worse though as if the mother has got a very good supply of breast milk or the baby is bottle fed, that tie will stay there unnoticed, leading to the the baby not having a great movement of the tongue, cannot make the normal noise of the baby which will lead to baby talking eventually. Problems with eating and chewing, stomach upset and more. Cognitive behaviour might be different as the baby communication is stopped in some way.

Symptoms connected with tongue tie are:

  • Difficulty in breastfeeding;
  • Tongue might be heart shaped when stuck out;
  • Increase frustration from baby as does not get enough milk in and fail to grow;
  • Baby might chew instead of sucking. Painful for the mother when they breastfeed;
  • Increase colic due to more air sucked in;
  • If not resolved and bottle is given, then eventually problems might arise later on in life with speech and eating problems, this include the lip tie; doctors will not do anything for the lip tie till the age of 5 years, by then the child might have already a problems.

Tongue tie affects more boys than girls, reasons why not fully known; Usually tongue and lip tie come together, even though the lip tie has been given less importance. CST could be helpful in stretching the frenulum but it has to be done many times and it will never be the same as cutting it. The procedure is simple and pain free as the frenulum has very few blood and nerve supply.

Support can be given to the area with CST for any possible minor trauma and resettle the baby system into a normal state. The tongue is connected with the entire intestinal tract and any restrictions from the tongue will affect the entire digestive system and the straining from the bloating can also cause an increase chance of hernia and stiffness to the entire skeleton, due to constant straining and stiffness. Tongue tie could also case more reflux as well.

© Maria Esposito BSc (Hons) R-Nutritional Therapists – NAET – R-Craniosacral therapist – PCI NLP Coaching programme – Certified Angel Guide – Mindfulness Meditation teacher – HeartMath meditation -Certified Clinical Trauma Professional (CCTP) – Trauma certification (PESI) – MBant – M-CSTA – CHNC registered

Nutrition in pregnancy for professionals

Pregnancy is where the health of the baby starts. In reality it starts before, with grandparents and the mother health. And as that is out of our control, we can do the best thing for the baby, have a great nutritional supported mother, that will give the best that she can for her baby.

The video course is for professionals, all researched and up to date nutrients that a mother needs for her baby to thrive instead of just do ok.

During pregnancy there are key essential nutrients for the baby optimum health. Low or deficiency in these key nutrients will affect the baby’s healthy development and health into their adulthood

If you are a professional working with pregnant mothers that a bit more knowledge to help the mother to make different choices might help them and the baby to thrive through pregnancy!

Email me if you are interested in buying the link to the video.

Payment is 15 pounds paid in advanced via bank transfer or Pay-pal, I will send you an invoice through them if you live outside UK.

Please note: Once you have been sent the link, there is no refund!

The video is very comprehensive and worth every penny.

Email esposito_m@yahoo.co.uk

© Maria Esposito BSc (Hons) R-Nutritional Therapists – NAET – R-Craniosacral therapist – PCI NLP Coaching programme – Certified Angel Guide – Mindfulness Meditation teacher – HeartMath meditation -Certified Clinical Trauma Professional (CCTP) – Trauma certification (PESI) – MBant – M-CSTA – CHNC registered

From non crawling to crawling after one session of craniosacral and much more

I am always amazed of the results after just one session of craniosacral therapy on babies.

After birth for mothers and baby, even with a natural birth, there can be some problems. From being stuck in a bridge position during the last month before birth, to C-section and ventouse or forceps. From very relaxed mother to stressed out throughout the entire pregnancy. Craniosacral therapy is one of the best therapy to relieve tension and patterns, as well as trauma from birth for both the mother and the baby.

I had babies letting go of the shock of birth, to reducing colics and reflux, to sleeping better and even crawling after one session, when it was time for that and the baby felt stuck on one site.

Now the very subtle movement and stuck patterns of the body, neck, spine and sacrum is very difficult to spot for the main stream professionals, and even though it might go at some point, it can also get stuck and cause problems later in life.

It is amazing also that very simple suggestions of small things to deal with various issues, from breastfeeding to various positions of holding, can allow the baby and parents to relax a bit more and allow the baby smile and calmness to come through, and usually the mother feels like they have more time and space to do things for themselves and the baby.

Usually is 3 sessions if the trauma is not too integrated in the deep system. Often by the first session there is a change, by the second the old patterns as moved out and the new one settle a bit more, and by the 3rd session they are settled and ready to embrace the new beautiful life that the parents are supporting the baby for!

© Maria Esposito BSc (Hons) R-Nutritional Therapists – NAET – R-Craniosacral therapist – NLP practitioner – Certified Angel Guide – Mindfulness Meditation teacher – HeartMath meditation -Certified Clinical Trauma Professional (CCTP) – Trauma certification (PESI) – MBant – M-CSTA – CHNC registered

Nutrition and craniosacral talk for pregnancy/breastfeeding and post-natal

Nutrition & craniosacral talk for Pregnancy and breastfeeding parents

New date in February 2024, enquire via email or by phone if interested

Venue: Life By Margot clinic 84 Park Road. Crouch End London N8 8JQ.

It is an hour. Cost is 10 pounds per person paid in advance only to Life By Margot, click here to book your place. Places are limited.

The talk will include what nutrition you and your baby will need extra during pregnancy and breastfeeding. Where you can find it in food and the extra supplements suggested for a healthier baby and mother.

What craniosacral can do for you and your baby while you are pregnant and post-natal, for colic, reflux, breastfeeding problems, after a tongue tie and for possible birth trauma of any kind, including in utero possible trauma.

This will be a friendly chat; question can be asked during the talk and answers. Email with the main essential nutrients and supplement suggestions will be sent after the talk to the participants.

Just a warning that there will not be chairs to sit on, but you are well to do some pacing if you need to and lean on the walls (or yoga ball are around).

I will do a moving breathing meditation so to keep moving a bit, and I will email the most of the information after the chat if we do not cover things up.

For Pilates and Yoga pregnancy and post-natal classes in Crouch End, click on Life By Margot click here

© Maria Esposito BSc (Hons) R-Nutritional Therapists – NAET – R-Craniosacral therapist – PCI NLP Coaching programme (health coach) – Certified Angel Guide – Mindfulness Meditation teacher – HeartMath meditation -Certified Clinical Trauma Professional (CCTP) – Trauma certification (PESI) – MBant – M-CSTA – CHNC registered

Liver detox and genetic make-up

I have talked in the past about liver and the detox. How important the liver is and how much we undervalue it for what we think about it.

The liver is the essential part of our body and organs, it is the one that protects you from the outside world in the food way. Anything that you eat will go through the liver first and than we pass through the blood and then where it needs to go.

The liver is the one that break down and make up things and compounds. Makes the protein that you need for everything that you do, and most of all detoxifies all the things that you absorb and gets read of everything that you need to let go.

There is phase I that I consider it as the adding the garbage into the bin. Quite often this phase of the liver can be more dangerous, especially if it is too fast compare to the Phase II, which is the garbage man taking the rubbish out, either through urine or through stools.

Genetically Phase I and II unfortunately can be slow in clearing things, which it means that if one of the 6 pathways in Phase II is slow or not working at all, then one of the other pathway needs to work much more.

For example if the pathway called glucoronidation does not work well or slow, if you drink too much or eat heavy food, or do not eat any food for more than 3 hours, you start getting a bit yellow or the jaundice. This is called Gilbert’s Syndrome. Luckily this pathway is supported by glutathione pathway, and if you take the extra glutathione then the jaundice reduces and you feel light and less tired and grumpy! However, if the glutathione pathway does not work well or is slow and the one of the methylation pathway do not work well, than the result could be headache, low mood, tiredness and feeling heavy. This is just a small sample of the possibility. The other coin could be that the phase I is too slow, then the coffee that you drink at 9am in the morning, will still be affecting you by midnight, or if you drink it at 3pm, than is an all night awake. If this is too slow, than it is advisable that you do not eat any Grapefruit, as this will slow down the phase I even more!

Then there the Methylation pathway, which is involved in any of the detox, and making things in our body, including getting rid of the homocysteine and hence affecting the heart and brain. This has also been connected to the epilepsy and autism. Methylation is also involved in making glutathione, this powerful antioxidant, as well as with arginine is involved in making nitric oxide, another powerful antioxidant.

You get the enzymes for the detox and methylation from both your parents, so usually you should get at least one that work, it is slower but it works. But if you get both of your parents SNP that do not work for any of the pathway and especially the methylation, than you are in trouble. And that trouble can start from when you are a baby, as you will not detoxifying any extra toxins that you would inject or ingest.

Ideally we should all have at birth at least a methylation test and the detox test, as it is a saliva test, non-invasive. It will save a lot of lives and quality of lives in the long run! Maybe there should start a research center to do that. How wonderful would be if someone will sponsor that, with craniosacral healing from birth for the mother and baby and see how the new generation of children will deal with life! It will definitely be money well spent!

© Maria Esposito BSc (Hons) R-Nutritional Therapists – NAET – R-Craniosacral therapist – NLP practitioner – Certified Angel Guide – Mindfulness Meditation teacher – HeartMath meditation -Certified Clinical Trauma Professional (CCTP) – Trauma certification (PESI) – MBant – M-CSTA – CHNC registered

Venues for Private sessions

Monday to Friday we are open week day from 9am till 5pm as last session, for online and face to face therapies.

Working from North London N15 6HA. Full address given on booking.

One or two Saturdays available for working from 9am till 5pm.

Sundays closed.

Crouch end Life by Margo clinic only for craniosacral therapy and pregnancy consultation, for NAET is N15 clinic.

Life By Margot clinic address is 84 Park Road Crouch End London N8 8JQ.

Flexible time and weekdays, contact me directly to book an appointment for yourself as an adult or if you are pregnant and/or post natal for you and your baby or babies.

Price for 1 hour at the clinic is 75 pounds to be paid on booking via bank transfer to

Payment via bank transfer to Maria Esposito TSB  sort code 308472 account 24603860 at booking.

Please download the heath check for you as an adult if you are having a session, for your baby is the file below.

Baby form please download if your baby is having a session.

Email me for any problems downloading the form to esposito_m@yahoo.co.uk

Or Call 07956662954.

Maria Esposito BSc (Hons)

Craniosacral Therapy in Crouch-end

Working privately in Crouch End at the Life By Margot clinic 84 Park Road
Crouch End London N8 8JQ.

Flexible time and days, contact me directly to book an appointment for yourself as an adult or if you are pregnant and/or post natal for you and your baby or babies.

Price for 1 hour at the clinic is 75 pounds to be paid on booking via bank transfer to

Payment via bank transfer to Maria Esposito TSB  code 308472 account 24603860 at booking.

Please download the heath check for for you as an adult if you are having a session, for your baby is the file below.

Baby form please download if your baby is having a session.

Email me for any problems downloading the form to esposito_m@yahoo.co.uk

Or Call 07956662954.

Maria Esposito BSc (Hons)

Elderberries syrup for the winter. Home made recipe

  • Elderberry syrup for the winter immunity. 1 tablespoon a day in your breakfast.
  • Pick the berries, free in any elderberry tree.
  • Use a fork and make sure you take yhe berries only of the little stem.
  • Do not be temped to eat them raw as they contain cyanide and only when cooked for 30 minutes the juice is safe to drink or eat the berries.
  • Wash the berries.
  • Add them into a pan. Fill the water just above the berries. Add sugar or honey to sweeten them up as bitter otherwise. You can also add ginger or cinnamon stick.
  • Once the water start to boil, simmer it for 30 minutes.
  • Once cooked, let it cool down a bit.
  • Use a sieve and sieve the juice into a container.
  • If you have glass bottles, use them to pour the juice in and once is fully cooled down, store it in the fridge. It holds up to 6 months. Use it in your breakfast, smoothly, yogurt or by itself during the winter.
  • Elderberry benefits:
  • High in vitamin C
  • High in Anthocyanins, powerful antioxidants protecting the brain
  • High in fibres if you eat the berries after being cooked (add sugar as they are a bit bitter or honey or yogurt or even ice-cream).
  • Anti-inflammatory
  • Rich in flavonoids
  • Due to the antioxidant and fiber may reduce cholesterol as well

© Maria Esposito BSc (Hons) R-Nutritional Therapist – NAET for allergies – R-Craniosacral Therapist – NLP – Angel Guide Certified – Mindfulness Meditation teacher- Resilient heart (heart-Math) – Trauma treatment certification

What if we have a soul?

I recently listened to an anatomist and embryologist who in “Theory” very much convinced that we have a soul, that will stay from conception to death. After our conception our soul energy is helping that body and baby shape up and eventually connect to the baby and embody.

Now I was so excited about it that I decided to contact them, and to my disappointment, they have the theory but never experienced it in person with either healing or even craniosacral therapy. And by the way craniosacral therapy for many therapists is very much like the anatomist, it is about the body and that is it.

My own experience of craniosacral therapy, pretty much connected and connected with the healing. Hence the body is connected to the soul and any other energy field around it. The baby is connected with the umbilical cord till that is cut, but that connection is still there for a long time with the baby, probably till around 7 years or more, when the child realizes that they are very much separate person and that the mother or carer does not know everything that there is in the world.

I have been told that my soul comes from the planet Amber. And coming from the planet Amber means that your soul is wise and older than the body will ever be. People from Amber planets are always connected to other wise people and also they will always be connecting with that wisdom since birth. I know as a child, I pretty connected to that wisdom and I know that some of the baby that I treated have an amazing Light. It might not be from the Amber region, even though it could be Lights and colour that might shape their personality and way of dealing with life!

So for me, yes we have a soul that has been with us since birth and stay till our passing onto some other lives, or stay and help people on Earth. The choice is ours. Is that wonderful!

We have a choice, a “free will”, as you want to call it, so is our human self. Both our soul and human body, come together with an understanding, with respect and unconditional love that will never leaves us.

Connecting to it, will allow us to connect to the Universal energy and Lights. Everything that surrounds us is a living being, and depends on our flexibility of mind, of our asking for help, and our frequency, that we can get the help that we need! The key is to ask!

So going back to the anatomist, there are lots of people out there that can cope with a theory of it, and are ok with that, but as soon as they are presented with the true fact of actually it is like that, they run a mile on the other direction, scared of being judged, punished or even worse, “seen”!

  • There is no judgement from the soul and all connection to that
  • There is no punishment
  • There is no shame or guilt trip
  • There no fear or pain

There is only love and infinite source of it.

Connect to your soul, to that Light and love and see your true self with the eyes of unconditional love, see how your life can change and shape in the direction that you want it to shape!

Ariami Marpisa tree of life 2018

Make your own tree of life to see the support that you have on earth, the strength that you have within your and the support that you have at the branches, leaves and more!

© Maria Esposito BSc (Hons) R-Nutritional Therapists – NAET – R-Craniosacral therapist – NLP practitioner – Certified Angel Guide – Mindfulness Meditation teacher – HeartMath meditation -Certified Clinical Trauma Professional (CCTP) – Trauma certification (PESI) – MBant – M-CSTA – CHNC registered

Healing craniosacral therapy for babies and adults/children

It has been established from some research that trauma start from pre-verbal time, even in our womb, to adulthood. Quite often we forget if we had trauma, if it is from birth, as many times traumatic birth were not addressed. Now we know that birth trauma and pre-natal trauma can affect that baby into adulthood.

The beauty of craniosacral therapy/healing is to allow that trauma from birth to be acknowledge and let go.

C-section, ventouse and forceps are considered birth trauma, and so are anxiety from parents or high stress during pregnancy.

And all of this can be re-balanced with craniosacral therapy from two weeks onwards, that include:

  • Colic
  • Reflux
  • Sleep deprived babies
  • High alert babies (babies do need their sleep to grow cognitively and physically)
  • Helps with breastfeeding issues, when jaw is tight with or without tongue tie.
  • After a tongue tie procedures to restore the movements and let go of the small shock
  • Relaxes the nervous system
  • Possible restrictions in turning the head left of right, which can still cause problems if at the smallest scale if not addressed (if baby prefers one side to sleep on and does not turn much on the other side, there is a possible small or neck and shoulder restriction)
  • Hip restrictions

With craniosacral therapy there is no pulling or pressure in any points that we touch, we let the baby’s body lead the way, with no force of any kind and no upside down baby!

Adults also can still resolve some trauma from birth, it might take a bit longer but can make huge differences through each sections.

© Maria Esposito BSc (Hons) R-Nutritional Therapist – NAET for allergies – R-Craniosacral Therapist – NLP – Angel Guide Certified – Mindfulness Meditation teacher- Resilient heart (heart-Math) – Trauma treatment certification

Whole body fascial unwinding workshop for therapists

Whole body fascial unwinding week-end workshops is for craniosacral therapists, osteopaths, physiotherapists and massage therapists. This can be done as a Day of practice with myself now. The day practice is only for people who have done unwinding and to strengthen their skill of unwinding. It will be run in north London and depending on how many people will be attending. This is a day of CPD (6 to 7 hours). Price is 95 pounds paid via bank transfer. Contact me directly for this. The day will be led only by me

The week end with in October is gone, but other opportunities can come.

The day will be only for therapists who already know the unwinding.

Below is the week end of October 2023 plan.

What therapists said about this course

“Thank you for the lovely healing weekend, I feel more confident with unwinding”

” Thank You and Douglas for this amazing week-end, I learned a lot, applied some techniques to my clients this morning”

Demonstration of head unwinding

What fascia unwinding will do for your clients and amazing Fascia unwinding can indeed be approached as an active form of meditation. Meditation is a practice that involves focusing the mind and cultivating a state of present-moment awareness. It can be done in various ways, and fascia unwinding can serve as a unique and engaging form of active meditation.

During a fascia unwinding session, the practitioner or individual actively engages with their body and the sensations that arise.

The gentle movements that their system will do naturally when they are engaged will allow their mind, to stop thinking and the movements will distract them from being in their cycle of thoughts.

Here are some aspects of fascia unwinding that align with the principles of active meditation:

1. Body awareness: Fascia unwinding encourages individuals to tune into their body’s sensations, such as tightness, warmth, or subtle shifts. This heightened body awareness brings attention to the present moment and helps anchor the mind in the physical experience. For the body this can be used for trauma, frozen shoulders, injuries once they are healed, to allow the fascia to let go of holding on, emotional and mental blocks and energetic toxic release. Somato Emotional Release of possible feelings and emotions trapped in an area of the body, joints, from childhood. Amazing on baby’s trauma and on children with anxiety.

2. Focused attention: During fascia unwinding, practitioners often concentrate on specific areas of the body, observing the sensations and changes that occur. This focused attention on the physical sensations can help still the mind and cultivate a state of mindfulness.

click here for a different person of head unwinding

3. Breath awareness: Conscious breathing is a fundamental aspect of many meditation practices. In fascia unwinding, individuals are often encouraged to engage in deep, mindful breathing, which can enhance relaxation, promote body-mind connection, and support the unwinding process.

4. Non-judgmental observation: In active meditation, the practice involves observing experiences without judgment or attachment. Similarly, during fascia unwinding, individuals are encouraged to observe sensations, emotions, and thoughts that arise without labelling them as good or bad.

This non-judgmental attitude fosters acceptance and cultivates a sense of presence.

click here to see 1st video of shoulder fascial unwinding on a person that worked with the arms a lot as an artist and stressed about study (Maria Esposito video), the unwinding is intense as their nervous system has been like that for many years.

Click here to see the head unwinding sample (Maria Esposito Video)

5. Release of tension: As fascia unwinding helps release physical tension and restrictions in the body, it can also contribute to the release of mental and emotional tension. By actively engaging in the unwinding process, individuals may experience a sense of letting go, relaxation, and a clearer state of mind.

Engaging in fascia unwinding as an active meditation practice can provide numerous benefits. It allows individuals to cultivate a deeper connection with their bodies, release stress and tension, and promote overall well-being.

Overall, fascia unwinding can serve as an engaging and beneficial active meditation practice, providing an avenue for cultivating mindfulness, body awareness, and emotional support.

Douglas Hutchings bio: BSc (Psychology)/ BPHED (Physical Ed & Management)Craniosacral therapist (15 years experience)— CCST (College of craniosacral therapy, London) Bowen technique (13 years experience) Founder of BodyInMind -Holistic therapies, retreats & healing/meditation workshops .Douglas’s background in psychology (BSc) and sports science (BPHED) laid the foundation for continued study in the field of complementary medicine, which truly links science and anatomy with the spirit/soul.​ The philosophy of BodyInMind integrates hands-on bodywork, energy medicine and deep listening to provide a catalyst for profound transformation of body, mind and soul.The core principal of Douglas”s work is that EVERYTHING is connected.  And when we connect the dots and let go of our limiting patterns/beliefs and trauma in the mind and body, we can really see ourselves and the world/universe in a completely different way to bring forth change and unrealized potential!​ After having a near fatal fall from 40-50ft in 2007, experiencing 24hours in critical condition and Doctor’s frantically trying to bring his body back to life, he passed over ‘to the other side’ and experienced a completely different reality, one where nothing was separate- all was ONE and perfect as it was. He was given the choice to return to his body, to fulfill his purpose helping others realize that we are whole, connected and here to grow/evolve into our true potential of body and mind and spirit. ’

Maria Esposito BSc (Hons) bio: Working from my heart is my main way of working, which opens up the heart of everyone I work with! I work with a sound scientific background with the healing and spiritual intuition within all my sessions, from nutritional NAET working with allergies, over-reaction to food, hay-fever and more, to craniosacral therapy for babies and mothers trauma, colic and more, adult trauma, COVID 19 tiredness and feeling out of space, to empowering my clients with Neuro Linguistic programming, Mindfulness meditation exercises (becoming present in your life at all times)!Mostly I connect with the heart of babies and people, to find the best solution for their problem, if my therapies are not enough then I will suggest what they can try! I know for the scientific background that our brain is capable of healing ourselves, and this is the greatest gift of being human, finding one of the possible solutions for the person coming into my sessions, is part of that! 

All practical workshop:

The entire workshop will be a deep and experiential way of healing yourself and your clients with various tools. Note down how you feel at least a day before the workshop starts eg: Physically, mentally, spiritually (if in tune with it), is your life stuck somewhere for work, family or play? note down as much as possible. As this workshop will be an amazing healing time for you as a person and therapists, you will be asked to note down how you feel at the end of it, and two weeks after. You can share with all of us or is for you to notice!

During the week-end workshop we will go through:

Saturday: Meditations throughout the day of various methods including own self fascial unwinding to teach to your clients as well as other resources for yourself and your clients.

– Unwinding of: Arms, legs, hips and feet. All practical experience.

– Discussions, questions and answers will be allowed during the entire week-end of the day and how we are within ourselves

Sunday: Meditations throughout the day

–              Unwinding of head and any other unwinding practice from yesterday workshop

–              Full body unwinding standing.

–              Discussion, questions and answers and end of the two workshops

Video demo links for each unwinding will be sent after you completed the week end for you to re-visit.

CPD certificate will also be emailed to you after you attended the workshop with any invoice for the last minute booking.

These workshops will be an introduction to a deeper level of meditation, unwinding and healing, that can be taken to a next level of healing with Douglas Hutchings new body mind healing certificates of upper levels. This week end is level 1. More information on the week end about reaching other levels.

The end of the workshops is the beginning of your practice, you can try with each client and family/friends. Practice is the key, and meditation to get within your inner stillness is the lock, to add it to your own tool kit as a therapist.

We will be asking people who come by car (parking is free over the week end), to bring their table if they can with pillows and blankets). Thank you very much.

Teas and coffees will be provided with some snacks. Bring lunch with you, there is a fridge to store your lunch. There are two coffee bar nearby and a small local shop, so not much to buy around but something.

Price for both is 240.00 paid via bank transfer to Maria Esposito TSB  code 308472 account 24603860

Invoice and CPD will be emailed.

Payments via pay-pal is £ 5.00 extra, any request of payment in this way, just email me and I will email you an invoice through pay-pal.

Without movement, there is no growth

Without love, there is no peace

Without awareness, there is no true path

Without light, there is only darkness

Without peace, there is no healing

Without Earth, there is no human

Without soul, there is only physical body and no humanity

Without forgiveness, there is no peace

Without opening our mind, there is no awareness

When we open our eyes, mind, ears and heart and speak our truth to ourselves and others, there is understanding, awareness, forgiveness, peace and an INFINITE AMOUNT OF LOVE. Ariami Marpisa 08/11/2018

© Maria Esposito BSc (Hons) R-Nutritional Therapist – NAET for allergies – R-Craniosacral Therapist – NLP – Angel Guide Certified – Mindfulness Meditation teacher- Resilient heart (heart-Math) (trauma tools) – Certificate for Trauma –

New: Support Facebook craniosacral therapy group just copy and paste to see what is about, any craniosacral therapists including students can join: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1367031110649058/

Dealing with trauma tools for Craniosacral therapists

Online workshop on “Dealing with trauma tools”. 6 Hours CPD 26/11/23 from 9.15am till 4.30pm

Often through craniosacral therapy session, people will bring up some childhood trauma. As a craniosacral therapist, you need to be able to hold the space, and also to make sure that the emotion that arise from that trauma are dealt in a gentle way for yourself and your client. Teaching also the client to be in a safe space at all time and give them tools to deal with whatever emotions come up when they are alone. The first suggestion is to ask the client if they want to be referred to another professional body. And not everybody wants to deal with that in a mental way, some wants the healing space of craniosacral therapy and they want to keep going with the therapy.

  • In dealing with the trauma, do you have enough tools for yourself to stay centered and calm, while supporting your client?
  • Do you have some simple tools to teach your client to feel safe while dealing with what is coming up?
  • What universal tools can you bring to the table.
  • What emotional and gentle tools can you give to your client?

This workshop will be online, will teach you how to stay centered and grounded while when your client comes up with a forgotten or suppressed trauma.

Meditations that you can do for yourself and teach your client, which heart-centered

NLP tools with timeline to deal with the emotions attached to the trauma in a safe space for the client.

Discussion of other possible way of helping your client through a challenges time if trauma arise, and a list of possible people you can suggest if they choose to see a more conventional therapist for trauma.

Payment via bank transfer of £ 75.00 to:   Maria Esposito TSB code 308472 account 24603860. Receipt will be send via email once payment received. CPD certificate after the attended course. If you would like to pay with pay-pal a 5 pounds extra cost will be added to the invoice. Let me know and I will send one when requested.

No refund for this one.

Recording is only for the meditations to the attendee.

© Maria Esposito BSc (Hons) R-Nutritional Therapist – NAET for allergies – R-Craniosacral Therapist – NLP – Angel Guide Certified – Mindfulness Meditation teacher- Resilient heart (heart-Math)

Embrace your inner therapist

17.09.23 from 10am till 5pm – face to face – London – 6 hours CPD

Embrace your inner therapist, look after yourself as a therapist, checking, clearing and healing yourself as a therapist, is different from clearing the space your work in. It is essential that as a therapist, especially working as a craniosacral therapist, which deals with the physical, emotional and spiritual part of a person, can also look after your own issue, by checking the state you are between clients and at the end of the day, especially if you in your personal life, are going through something, or your friends, immediate family and family in general are also going through some life challenges, and naturally you are helping them to go through the challenges.

The first thing to do as a therapist, is looking after yourself!

Let go of other people challenges, emotional, mental and spiritual challenges. If you hold on to the challenges, or emotions, you end up holding on to anybody else challenges by allowing a door to stay open and accumulate all the garbage from your surronding.

If you do not let go, it is like having a garbage bin open, where everyone can damp their rubbish, with nobody taking that way or emptying it, which it means eventually it will overflow and become a mountain of rubbish that your your mind, body and soul cannot deal anymore.

  • In this workshop, we will do few meditations to notice how our entire system feels;
  • Looking at possible negative attachment to our clients or friends and separating your issue with theirs.
  • Clearing our system and filling it with positive emotions and more.
  • Grounding ourselves with more meditations.
  • Hands on sessions on each other, in checking, clearing and filling the space with positive emotions, as sometimes, we need another person perception and intuition to make us see what we cannot notice within ourselves.

This will be in London, the venue is either at N15 6HA, or at Horsey Vale community center in Crouch end, this depends on how many people will sign up.

The price is £ 90 pounds payble via bank transfer to Maria Esposito TSB code 308472 account 24603860.

Pay-pal payments is £ 95.00, click on the link below and pay 95.00. Thank you

If you would like to pay via pay-pal the price is 5 pounds more, you can email me and I will email you an invoice from pay-pal. You will get an invoice either way from me and a 6 hours CPD certificate.

© Maria Esposito BSc (Hons) R-Nutritional Therapist – NAET for allergies – R-Craniosacral Therapist – NLP – Angel Guide Certified – Mindfulness Meditation teacher- Resilient heart (heart-Math)

Pregnancy Mindfulness meditation

Through our busy life, we often forget to reconnect to ourselves and out lives, even when we are pregnant.

In order to connect to your baby and be one with them, start re-connected to yourself and be present at all time.

The mindful meditation is online from 6.30pm for 4 consecutive Mondays (Monday August 28th, bank holiday, skipped to the next one), starting form the 14th of August 2023.

The mindfulness meditation is different from a normal meditation, we aim to be awake rather than asleep.

All meditations are done sitting down.

  • 1st week breathing meditation, reconnecting to your breathing, expand your breathing. Breathing and connecting to the baby.
  • 2nd week – Breathing and presence meditation, connecting to your baby.
  • 3rd week – Breathing meditation, connecting to your own heart, inner calm, inner peace, connecting to the baby through your heart.
  • 4th week – Bringing a calm vision into the breathing, connecting through your heart to your baby, intuition and feelings about your baby.

Meditations online, zoom link will be emailed it to you near the time of the first Monday.

Book in advanced only – £ 60.00 pounds for the 4 weeks, only in blocks of 4 as you need to make changes.

Payment via bank transfer to Maria Esposito TSB code 308472 account 24603860. You can request a pay-pal invoice if you would like the payment to be that way. 5 pounds extra will be added for pay-pal payments.

Meditations reduces anxiety, connects to your present time and your baby, you can do them when you have your baby to calm yourself and baby down, while breastfeeding and when you need to comfort them for any colic or reason that arise the first 8 weeks of their lives!

No refund- once you book there is no refund, you can take part in the next course of 4 weeks, even when you had your baby. Only the meditation will be recorded, any part with questions are not recorded, and only the people in the course will receive the link to recording.

© Maria Esposito BSc (Hons) R-Nutritional Therapist – NAET for allergies – R-Craniosacral Therapist – NLP – Angel Guide Certified – Mindfulness Meditation teacher- Resilient heart (heart-Math)

Babies craniosacral therapy

What is craniosacral and what will do for your baby/child and during pregnancy

It is called craniosacral because the of the spinal fluid going from the cranium to the sacrum is what makes everything function well and properly. All the nerves and nerve transmission from the brain to the body and from the body to the brain go through there and it is all connected like a tree with branches and roots.

What the craniosacral therapist does is listening to the rhythm of that fluid and feel if there is any blockage in the body, memory cells of the tissue and the mind as well as the energetic field around that body to see if it is breathing well and properly. If there is a blockage just our training and knowledge as therapists will help the mother, baby and child unblock the blockage and re-balance the system or body function. 

With CST, what we do, is free that blockage and stabilize the rod in the centre of the body again, so that your life is back to normal, with possible few changes. Life does throw challenges at us all the time, and it is a normal way of living, it is the you deal with them and how fast you get back to the centre, that is important. So, what CST teaches you is to get back to normality quicker and stronger. 

For parents it looks like we are not doing anything and sometimes for the first session nothing changes much, it depends on how deep that trauma or wound is and how the parents as well are dealing with that. It might take two to three sessions to see the difference. I usually suggest at least the mother to have a session so that they can feel how changes occur within their body and around them as well as the baby. 

I found that CST has also a strong spiritual healing power as well. It depends on the therapist and if they have themselves experience their own spiritual healing (this is nothing to do with religion, it is something to do with your inner soul and own spirituality in the way you see it).

Memory cells – my experience with Cranio-sacral therapy was amazing. My labor and my son birth were very traumatic. My son kept having colds and coughs from the time I stopped breastfeeding at 14 months. As I did not want to give antibiotics all the time I sought for  other ways of dealing with that. Homeopathy vitamin C and nutrition helped to get rid of the colds or reduce them when he had them but he still kept having more colds and coughs that he should have had. So, I took him to cranio-sacral and it took a while (about 1 year to fully be better) as I took him to the Student clinic but they got rid of his traumatic birth and finally his colds and coughs were reduced to once a year and now not even once a year.

He can now fight the colds very easily and usually gets over anything much easier than any other child that I know.

My own experience with CS was that even after 7 years since the labour my body memory cells still retained that trauma. I had epidural so I did not feel mentally any pain, but my body did. And all that pain and trauma was still pretty stored in my tissues. Finally I got rid of it with CST and it is amazing the difference it made even to my personal life physically and emotionally.

Some of the children and babies that I treated with CST had some traumatic birth or even without a traumatic birth and what some of the issues that were reduced were:

Starting life with a great balance system is one of the huge benefits that the baby will have in coping any of the issue that life brings. Babies treated with CST have a more positive and happier attitude in life and feel more confident of their journey.

© Maria Esposito BSc (Hons) R-Nutritional Therapist – NAET – R-Craniosacral Therapist – NLP Practitioner – Certified Angel Guide – Mindfulness meditation teaching

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Working with CST from 9 months to 8 years plus

This is a new workshop online on the 22nd of October 2023. 6 Hours CPD

Starts at 9.15am for registration till 4.30pm

What it will cover:

  • Tips and tools to work with babies from 9 months to 12, 12months to 3 years and children from 4 to 8 plus years
  • This will be online – How to work with the moving babies from 9 months to 12 months, some of the health that you might encounter then.
  • Walking toddlers from 12 months to 3 years, how do you approach them and what health issues you might encounter.
  • From 4 to 8 plus years, how do you work with them and some of the health issue you might encounter. 
  • This is a 6 hours CPD workshop, questions and answers as well as meditations. From my experience working with different backgrounds of toddlers and children.
Perceiving things in different way

From 9 months old babies and toddlers are very suspicious of anybody else that is not part of their circle, as a natural instinct kicks in. Working with them in craniosacral therapy can be challenging at times and rewarding at the end. From 9 months old the issues that you might encounter are different from the baby stage. They might have more of sleeping problems, attachment issues, teething, ear problems and for some they might still have a trauma from birth if they have not dealt with it earlier.

This workshop will give you some of the tips to work with them, hands on and off, depending on the stage and trust that they will have. You need to be very flexible with your way of working, to allow the babies and toddlers to tell you their story. With children from 4 years onwards is a bit different, with various issues that they will come up. This has to be a collaboration between you the parents and the children.

In this workshop there will be some mindfulness meditations, to get you as a therapist in a state of stillness, inner peace, and calm that is needed to work with moving toddlers and children!

Questions and answers throughout the workshop is allowed.

The zoom link will be emailed to you near the time of the workshop.

Price for this workshop is 75 pounds paid via bank transfer. Once you pay you are booked. I will email you a receipt and a CPD certificate once you finish.

Payment via bank transfer:  (email Maria Esposito on the above emails if making payments in this way). Maria Esposito TSB code 308472 account 24603860

© Maria Esposito BSc (Hons) R-Nutritional Therapist – NAET for allergies – R-Craniosacral Therapist – NLP – Angel Guide Certified – Mindfulness Meditation teacher- Resilient heart (heart-Math)

Irritable Bowel Syndrome

Brian-gut health depends on:
Gut health: gut barrier intact
• Leaky gut due to various reasons, eg. Stress, medications, alcohol, viruses, bacteria overload, candida, allergens, low nutrients and more
• Low serotonin due to leaky gut, or damaged gut barrier, affect mood and positive thinking
• Low enzymes function
• Low liver function—unbalanced liver phase I & II
• Unbalanced TH1 & TH2 immunity
• Low gall bladder function
• High intestinal histamine
• High intestinal inflammation

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Gut health: gut barrier intact
• Leaky gut due to various reasons, eg. Stress, medications, alcohol, viruses, bacteria overload, candida, allergens, low nutrients and more
• Low serotonin due to leaky gut, or damaged gut barrier, affect mood and positive thinking
• Low enzymes function
• Low liver function—unbalanced liver phase I & II
• Unbalanced TH1 & TH2 immunity
• Low gall bladder function
• High intestinal histamine
• High intestinal inflammation

© Maria Esposito BSc (Hons) R-Nutritional Therapists – NAET – R-Craniosacral therapist – NLP practitioner – Certified Angel Guide – Mindfulness Meditation teacher – The resilient Heart (HeartMath) meditation and Certified Clinical Trauma Professional (CCTP) – MBant – M-CSTA – CHNC registered

Myths about babies!

Myths about how parents behave with babies:

  • You will spoil a baby if you hold them all the time – this is not true. You will never spoil a baby when you hold them. They will grow stronger and feel safer at all times. They will develop a sense of security and be confident within themselves.
  • When they cry, and you do not pick them up, they will fall asleep by themselves and stop crying. – This is not true. They will stop crying, but with that, they will learn that nobody will come if I cry or ask for help!
  • You can start giving big babies finger foods at 4 months or any other foods rather than milk, they can handle it! False, even with big babies, their intestinal tract and digestive system is not formed yet and hence any food that you give that is not milk will cause big intestinal tract problems, allergies and inflammation of the intestinal tract, leading to more serious intestinal tract problems later in life.
  • Babies do not lie, or pretend they are sick! They do not have that inclination yet. If they are crying, it means they are either tired, hungry, something is upsetting them or they are in pain.
  • Babies do not feel pain. Wrong, babies do feel pain, they feel emotions from others, they do feel emotions.
  • Babies do not smile in the first few weeks, it is gas! Babies do smile within few hours; they are happy to hear their parents voice, and they do smile!
  • Babies do not feel your emotions. Babies do feel emotions, they feel your love when you touch the belly when they are inside the womb, they will feel that touch of love when they are born. They do feel love, sadness, grief, anger, and more from their parents and mum when in the womb and outside.

© Maria Esposito BSc (Hons) R-Nutritional Therapist – NAET for allergies – R-Craniosacral Therapist – NLP – Angel Guide Certified – Mindfulness Meditation teacher- Resilient heart (heart-Math

Tongue tie in babies. What happens if you leave it?

Many babies now have been diagnosed with tongue tie. I researched the reason for that, and it seems that is mainly due to more awareness from mothers and midwives and breastfeeding consultants. Even about 8 years ago the awareness was much less in the UK, or at least I did not see many, but at the same time, many mothers even about 3 years ago were bottle fed instead, due to problems of the baby latching. So it might be due now to mothers wanted to breastfeed more and hence the tongue tie and lip tie being the main issue for poor latch and painful mastitis, it is addressed more.

You might know already that a tongue tie or a lip tie, including posterior tongue ties, do cause and increase colic, reflux and explosive poos, as well as mastitis and poor latch. You also might know that most mothers might be told that a posterior tongue ties is ok, especially if the baby is growing.

Now if the baby is growing could be due to the mother having a very good supply of milk, or the baby being bottle fed instead.

A frenotomy as it is officially called is fairly quick and easy (no laser as it can burn the skin a bit to much, do research). It take about two weeks for healing completely.

I was very surprised though that here in the UK, even the private clinics do not recommend the post-procedure exercises for the parents to do. These exercises are as essential as the frenotomy. The reason for that is to avoid for the regrowth of the tie and also because the brain does not recognise that the tongue can move in different directions now, including up and sideways. And it is done once a day for at least 6 weeks after the procedure. Very simple exercises and easy to do, and again very, very essential. Here is a wonderful u-tube video that shows the exercises very clearly and easy. The baby is already the star and the therapist is wonderful too. click here to see it. As well as having a craniosacral therapy, afterwards to release any possible jaw tightness and maybe the trauma for the mother rather that the baby.

Remember that the baby will feel the emotions and feelings like a sponge of the parents and cares. If you react to the procedures with calm and love, they will feel it.

What happens if the tongue tie, even the posterior tie is not addressed?

  • No new sounds learning as the tongue does not move all the way up or sideways, which it means the larynx and vocals muscles will be affected, with possible speech problem later in life.
  • Constant colic due to inhale of more air, even with the baby growing remember, will cause a bloated belly and more reflux.
  • A bloated belly will lead the baby to dislike having tummy time.
  • No tummy time, means no crawling
  • No crawling means no hand-eye coordination
  • No hand-eye coordination, no eating much of finger food and fussy eater.
  • No hand-eye coordination, strong connection with dyslexia.
  • No crawling, no stretching of the intestinal tract, with possible digestive problems later in life.
  • and the list could go on, with possible things that are not yet been researched on or had a connection with.

My suggestions for new parents or old parents, is that if you have been told that your baby or child now, has a tongue tie, and not to do anything because it will grow out of it, and as they are putting on weight because you have a really good supply of milk and you are still hearing the clicking noise when they are breastfeeding, or they are bottle fed and still have not yet made any sounds by the time of 4 to 5 months, then you might have a problem there. A little discomfort for the parents or the baby, it is worth a lifetime of bigger discomfort! Do research it and make your decision as soon as possible, private procedures are not too expensive now, and with the essential exercise and craniosacral therapy before and after, things will be great!

posterior tongue tie
tongue tie
lip tie as an older child

© Maria Esposito BSc (Hons) R-Nutritional Therapist – NAET for allergies – R-Craniosacral Therapist – NLP – Angel Guide Certified – Mindfulness Meditation teacher- Resilient heart (heart-Math)

Chocolate and headache for adults and babies

I love chocolate, it is my favourite treat. The darker the better, I love the bitterness, and I love coffee for that reason. Now I try not eat as much or even buy any form of chocolate, as I will eat it all. So I avoid it as much as possible, apart when I go in a country where the chocolate is pure and thick, and when you ask for the hot chocolate you will need a spoon to actually eat it, rather than drink it. So when my friend suggested to go a check an Italian chocolate bar, I was very keen to go, and in the hope that I would not suffer of headache afterwards. I was prepared with my glutathione, liver support so that I could detoxifying the chocolate by the night time. Aheme, that did not happen, as when we got there, the chocolate was so divine, dark, triple chocolate, so I ordered a hot chocolate and we share a triple chocolate piece of cake, which was so big. Plus, there were complementary chocolate tear drops on the table for us to eat even more chocolate. Boy it was heaven for me! Till I got home, and night time and morning I had such a strong headache, I could not get up. It became a migraine and hence had to take up to 4 capsule of glutathione complex to detoxifying. I felt like I had drunk a bottle of Vodka and felt so sick with. So, yes it was my amazing treat, but obviously that cannot be repeated again.

pure dark chocolate and bean chocolate

Now I know that dogs will die if they eat chocolate or garlic and onions, and that is all about the liver detox, and mainly the second part Phase II liver detox, which is the rubbish bin collectors taking the rubbish from the bins away. Click here to understand the liver detox.

The reason I had such a hard time detoxifying chocolate is that I have Gilbert Syndrome, which is a defective or slow liver pathway that is genetic, my father has it and I am the only one in the family who has it. Many people have a liver snip either quite severe or mild. My one can be dealt with the glutathione pathway taking up extra rubbish to eliminate; others might have the Gilbert’s Syndrome with the glutathione snip as well, and that is where problems will be even worse, if they do not keep taking the liver support to support the other pathways of elimination.

Now in babies, quite often they have jaundice, which also with Gilbert Syndrome you would get, and that means that the liver is not functioning still in his full capacity. Remember that the mother’s hormones needs to be also detoxified by the baby, up to few weeks after birth, and also that the liver needs a bit of time to grow and eliminate more things.

So if you eat are a mother that is breastfeeding, and you eat a lot of garlic, onions, chocolate, coffee or normal tea, the baby might not detoxifying it very well and hence possible have a form of headache or inflammation which will cause them to cry and feel sick a bit. So do be aware if you also have a lot of cake and sugary food which you are breastfeeding as for some babies, they need more time for the digestive system to function at their optimal level.

I managed to deal with my Gilbert’s Syndrome and taught my father to do the same, since I went to started my Nutritional Therapy degree about 26 years ago. I remember that at that time, my liver had signs of lupus or the antibodies for that. I was referred to a liver specialist, and at that time I started also to take the glutathione. The specialist said that it was a placebo effect. Well sometimes specialist do not think out of the box, and hence look at alternative way of healing. My father often does get the total bilirubin test to check that it does not get too high. After taking the glutathione as recommended his bilirubin was back to normal more often than not, with the surprise of the medical doctors 25 years ago.

Breastfeeding mothers and pregnant women cannot take any high dosage glutathione, but asparagus has got some natural glutathione, and hence they can eat that.

© Maria Esposito BSc (Hons) R-Nutritional Therapist – NAET for allergies – R-Craniosacral Therapist – NLP – Angel Guide Certified – Mindfulness Meditation teacher- Resilient heart (heart-Math)

A proven naturally way to Lowering your cholesterol and tri-glycerides

I am so thankful that after three years I can still pass my Christmas in Italy with my family. Lots of things have changed, people do different things, some with family and others by themselves travelling a bit more. There is still a lot more fears attached to Covid than in other places, and any new news about it becomes an extra worry. In pharmacies people still wear a mask and you feel like the odd out if you don’t. There was a new strain of flu going around and young and older people felt worse than ever with it. This is due to the immune system not being challenged for 3 years. My parents, even in their old age are always worried about lack of food, so they buy more than they will ever eat in one week, and they love to plant seasonal vegetables, even in big pots. When they were given big pots as a gift, they were so happy that they can manage to plant their seasonal vegetables without much effort, as the planting them on the land would be too much for them.

Green and red salad

They try their best not to take extra medication that they can avoid, even though they might take some that are essential. Both my parents were tested high for cholesterol last year, and of course, they were given by their GP the usual medication to lower it. They both did not react well with it, and I mentioned to try to see if with Benecol, as I knew that it would work, would go down enough for the doctors to be ok with it. I also suggested to take fish oil in capsules for both of them, for two reasons, one for the brain, and the other to reduce tri-glycerides, which again they both had a bit high. They have been taking it since the summer, and I asked if their cholesterol was low. They said they were so happy with it, as the cholesterol got down so much, as well as the tri-glycerides, with the fish oil. To be fair the doctor in Italy did suggest the fish oil for that too, which is good. They have not told the doctor about the Benecol though and the reason for being lower. My mum had a heart operation 6 years ago so she had to have a lower cholesterol.

The main ingredients that is beneficial to reduce cholesterol in Benecol is plant sterol ester, and I would not agree with all the ingredients in Benecol, but for people, like my parents that would rather have a food that keep taking pills, this is the 2nd best option.

Freshly squeezed orange juice

The best one is to take plant sterol and phytosterol in capsule as well as combining the dietary changes. My parents do eat their own seasonal vegetables, and fennel, endive and salads, as well as broccoli, chicory, and broccoletti (found in Italy but not England), are part of their stable diet, as well as beans, lentils and fruits. Green leafy vegetables, sage, nuts contain plant sterols as well as the food above.

We were so fortunate to have my mum make us freshly squeezed orange juice every morning, that is because a couple of kilos of oranges would cost two Euros, compared to 2 pounds for a pack of 5 oranges here. They would also eat good nuts such as pecans and walnuts as snacks, which would help with having higher good fats as well. At their age, they eat less meat and hard cheese, due to my insistence, less frying and more oven baked food, as well as using only olive oil if any food needs to be cooked. Using their own olive oil from their own olive tree only raw with salads and food.

© Fennel

 If you do have high cholesterol and high tri-glycerides, you need to consider the entire life style change as well, to make the most of it and get things sorted out for good, and that would include walking 30 minutes, twice a day, to keep your circulation going and keep your heart pumping well.

Some of the plant sterols in supplements might cost as much as the Benecol, so maybe worth getting that instead and you get more for them, like a monthly supply. Fish oil with high EPA and DHA, again get a good brand as that would still be worth it, and even if you eat fish, you might not get enough from a couple of times that you eat it a week. At least you can get the plant sterols and fish oil till your tests come back normal and then keep going with the dietary changes and walking to keep it stable, and maybe just get the Benecol every now and then to keep it down.

© Maria Esposito BSc (Hons) R-Nutritional Therapist – NAET for allergies – R-Craniosacral Therapist – NLP – Angel Guide Certified – Mindfulness Meditation teacher- Resilient heart (heart-Math

Babies reflux, colic, sleep problems and breastfeeding problems with craniosacral therapy

Babies reflux and colic are very common, and there is not always the need to give a baby anti-acid. There are ways of reducing the reflux and colic and re-balance the nervous system to get the baby healthy and well for his life! Craniosacral therapy is a gentle but powerful tool for the baby and mother.

Often mothers after a second session would say “It is like another baby, calmer, does not have a high pitch cry anymore, only small discomfort that goes away very quickly”.

 Symptoms of Reflux are spitting up milk, with or without a burp.

 Coughing

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 Pulling away or arching during feeding

 Crying and fussing during feeding

 Grunting or gurgling and not calming after feeding.

Also the silent reflux can be notices when baby will look like they are licking their lips or tasting something.

When acid comes up, the baby will have a high pitch crying sudden or continuous, and some babies will not cry much.

Possible nutritional reason is due to allergies to milk protein if bottle fed or from mothers cow’s milk and cheese intake or other foods such as caffeine, chocolate, tea and other stimulants.

Breastfed and bottle fed babies have reflux, but bottle fed seems to have more.

Possible too much lactose in mothers milk and sometimes just giving Colief or lactase enzymes might reduce reflux and colic.

With colic, the baby will try to pull his/her legs up, will cry after 1 hour to 2 hours after feeding, more during the late evening feed as the milk is denser. This can be easily resolved with craniosacral therapy and baby probiotics.

© Maria Esposito BSc (Hons) R-Nutritional Therapist – NAET for allergies – R-Craniosacral Therapist – NLP – Angel Guide Certified – Mindfulness Meditation teacher- Resilient heart (heartMath)

Babies and mothers craniosacral therapy sessions

From reflux, during pregnancy, to tiredness and relaxions for anxious mothers to babies and mothers birth trauma, Craniosacral therapy is a gentle but very powerful and magical therapy that allows the entire body system to settle and balance up. This will reduce, anxiety for the mother, and stress mode, or vagal irritation for the baby when they are born. In turn for the baby means, less colic, less irritation or fear mode, less reflux, improved breastfeeding, more peaceful sleep for baby and mother. craniosacral therapy is a gift of a lifetime for your baby, as it will improve the mother and baby connection, a HAPPY BABY, will increase the good positive neurons forming and good memory that will positively affect them for their lifetime!

For babies with a small amount of birth trauma just few sessions is enough to settle them in a balance way. This improve the connection after a tongue tie for a good latching and hence feeding well.

For the past 30 years, I have heard of mothers saying that their baby do not poo for few days or even a week or more at the time, and they have been told that it is normal.

After just one session and suggestions of babies infants probiotics, babies poo few times a day, as they should do.

The foundation of good bacteria from the start of the baby’s life, will set them for a lifetime of good intestinal tract. There are plenty of research now connecting the gut health with the brain healthy development of the baby in their adult time.

The past 50 years with the use of too much anti-biotics, which at times, they do save lives, but others were prescribed as sweet, have seen the stripping of the good bacteria, with an increase in gut dysbiosis, Irritable Bowel Syndrome, and other Irritable Bowel disorders. Now that we have learned how important our friendly gut bacteria are from the start, let’s keep them in and start from the beginning!

Give yourself and your baby the gift of life, with craniosacral therapy. For the mothers and adults, the change is a bit more slow, but worth starting and carrying on!

© Maria Esposito BSc (Hons) R-Nutritional Therapist – NAET for allergies – R-Craniosacral Therapist – NLP – Angel Guide Certified – Mindfulness Meditation teacher- Heart Meditation certificated (Heart-Math)

Transformation by Maria Esposito in the Fulcrum for craniosacral therapy

(taken from) The Fulcrum, Issue 82 January 2021 click here for original article

I find that the more I follow my intuition and connect to the heart, serving everything that makes my client whole and integrated, the faster they heal and in so doing transform their lives and mine.

Having held CST workshops on how to deepen one’s practice for the past five years, I was recently invited to write about the journey that led to teaching. Hesitant at first about how to put my thoughts and experiences in words, I was reminded that there seems to be a hunger to understand ‘grounding’ more deeply and learn to apply it to our daily lives, and a desire to develop a more intuitive, heart-centred connection with ourselves, our work and our clients. In recalling my own efforts to learn these things, and the wonderful transformation when I was finally able to apply them to myself and my practice, I’d like to share my journey.

A massage course led to further qualifications in sports massage, reflexology, nutritional therapy, muscle testing and Nambudripad Allergy Elimination Techniques (NAET). I found that I loved helping others to resolve their problems and pain and have been a holistic therapist for more than 28 years.

Informed by anatomy, physiology, nutrition and Eastern approaches, I spent many years helping clients and yet I still felt a need to meet them more holistically. My first experience of CST was when cranial-osteopathy was recommended for my son’s recurring colds and coughs. The process that led to the release of his birth trauma made me so curious that I eventually enrolled to study CST at the College of Cranio-Sacral Therapy (CCST).

My scientific and therapeutic training was comfortable with the physical focus of cranial-osteopathy but I found myself unsure about the whole-system approach that was taught at CCST. Nevertheless, during treatments and practical sessions, I felt much-needed changes occurring within me and experienced profound results. Whatever it was, it was working. Still, it was challenging; I was very good at the physical and scientific aspects of CST but not as good at grounding and working off-body. I became increasingly conscious of being ungrounded, of not being fully present in my body, especially in the mornings and evenings, which led to exhaustion. Not able to ground well, I did not pass my practical exam. It was the first time that I had not succeeded in something that I had put effort into and it was difficult to accept. So, as a positive and stubborn person, I set out to understand everything I could about grounding.

‘Just Ground’

A healer brought a fresh perspective on grounding that helped me understand the concept of being fully present and embodied, and why I was ungrounded in the first place. At the same time, Octavia Kelly, a CST colleague, brought her experience and insight to my training. I am very thankful to both and for my failure to pass the practical part of my final training assessment, as my journey would have been completely different otherwise. I would not have understood the concept of grounding as deeply as I do now and how essential self-healing is to our work.

I realised that the more grounded I was, the more I felt calm, focused, alive and less tired throughout the day.

Developing Intuition and Heart-Connection

My interest in intuition and heart connection first began when I started to practise CST in combination with the NAET method of treating allergies. Many clients began sharing what they saw and felt during treatments, which was often beyond my wildest expectations of what was possible or logical. My natural curiosity led me to explore this. Hence, when I tuned into and followed a client’s whole system during a treatment, I often saw images, for example, a femur or tibia or fibula in an incorrect position, and sometimes I would feel pain in my own leg, knowing that it was not mine. This would lead me to ask if there was a problem with the limb that presented to me, and I found that the answer was always ‘yes’ when I worked this way. So, I started to mention more of what I felt or saw during treatments and the answers often confirmed where a problem that affected their body and sometimes their mind had started. If my hands felt something hot or cold, or if my clients spoke of seeing images and/or colours, I would follow and see where it led.

I began to attend healing classes to become more grounded. The technique that helped me become more embodied and less stuck in my head (with my logical, scientific mind) was to visualise that my legs and feet were weighed down by anchors. Thai Chi and Qi Gong classes, where grounding and body awareness were practised in every class, and swimming and Pilates classes, also helped me to become more embodied. After a few months, I was grounding well enough to pass my practical exam, and a door opened to a new experience of life, professionally and personally.

I realised that the more grounded I was, the more I felt calm, focused, alive and less tired throughout the day. I could see clearly what I wanted to do in my life, and I experienced inner peace for the first time. Reaching a steady state of inner peace is not an easy thing to achieve; it takes time, especially when life challenges you. Still, the more whole and grounded I became, the lighter I felt, and when life ungrounded me I recovered my grounding and balance more quickly.

‘Just ground’ became my personal mantra and after a few years of experiencing the benefits of this amazing change and self-transformation, I wanted to share this simple way of being. This led to developing my CST workshop ‘Grounding and Healing Tools’ and, judging from its popularity, it seemed to fill a gap for many therapists.

This workshop is a reminder of how far I have come on my own journey in grounding and in my own life, and it is a privilege to pass on what I have learnt to others who are ready to understand the concept more fully and embrace their potential. Through teaching grounding techniques I hope to remind, reconnect and deepen practitioners’ understanding of why grounding is so powerful, transformative and important for ourselves as individuals and therapists, and for our clients.

I have also found healing tools useful in my practice. Healing, defined as ‘the process of making or becoming sound or healthy again’, resonates with me and I feel that my work is part of a healing process. The danger is that we can become vulnerable to our clients’ issues, and if not careful, can internalise them. As part of my toolkit, healing techniques help to protect me from holding on to my clients’ emotions and feelings. I find that I feel much more exhausted if I do not combine CST with these tools, and my hope in sharing them is to help others stay protected, resourced and energised in their work.

I found that the more I followed my intuitive sense without fear or judgement, the more accurate my treatments became.

Fascinated by this process, I started consciously to develop my ‘right brain’ – thought to be the most creative and intuitive part of our body. Inspired by John Upledger’s experiences in the ‘Inner Physician’ and ‘Somato-Emotional Release’, I found that the more I followed my intuitive sense without fear or judgement, the more accurate my treatments became. I then read ‘The Biology of Transcendence’ by Joseph Chilton Pearce in which he describes the heart as the fifth or highest brain. As a result of this study, I now practise CST with intuition and heart-connection.

Developing heart-connection transformed my practice. The first time I understood this profound power I was treating a client who shared something I was simply not able to understand. Beyond my comprehension, the only way I could follow and support my client was to let go of judgment, fear and worry and connect to unconditional love for them and their journey. I focused on just being there, trusting and allowing the whole system to do what it needed to do, following where it led. This, of course, is the principle of CST – observe, listen, allow whatever needs to unfold and integrate. Yet, in my experience, we all come to a profound recognition of this truth in different ways.

As I deepened my intuitive perception, following where the client’s system led, it felt natural to share with colleagues, to help them strengthen the intuition that many already experience. I felt that some just needed guidance or reassurance that whatever they were experiencing needed to be followed and taken into consideration for the benefit of their client’s whole system, health and deep healing. The workshop ‘Integration of the Self, Strengthening Your Inner Intuition,’ grew out of this desire to help therapists grow further in their knowledge and awareness to push beyond their comfort zone while remaining sensitive to their boundaries.

Thanks to my inner curiosity, my therapy practice has evolved far beyond my expectations. As I have sought ways to deepen my connection to clients, I have come to realise the power of working from our hearts is essential to serving them in the best way possible. Focused by grounding and guided by intuition, the unconditional love and peace that is inherently present when we are led from the heart enable us to grow both personally and professionally. It is this truth that I wish to share with others.

© Maria Esposito BSc (Hons) R-Nutritional Therapist – NAET for allergies – R-Craniosacral Therapist – NLP – Angel Guide Certified – Mindfulness Meditation teacher- Resilient heart (heart-Math)

Becoming Fearless: The Journey to Self-Healing by Maria Esposito from the Fulcrum

The Fulcrum, Issue 84 September 2021 click here for the full link to the fulcrum

When I first started working with a heart-centred connection, my practice was transformed. I found that working from the heart enabled me to connect with my higher self and strengthen my intuition. Clients commented on the treatment experience and the more I nurtured my heart connection, the more effective my work became.

Yet, developing heart connection was not easy or straightforward. There were times when the connection was open and grounded, spacious and flowing. Other times I resonated with painful emotions and experiences. Questioning why this could be so led me to recognise my own emotional pain and unconscious fears and accept my need to heal.

The self-healing journey takes many forms and different paths. Each one of us will need to find the best way to acknowledge, recognise and heal from our emotional pain and fear. Here, I will share my own journey, experiences and observations before recommending useful tools and techniques that may support self-healing.

A Healing Dynamic

From personal experience and from talking with others, I believe that quite often therapists attract clients who have experienced similar pain. It seems a case of ‘like attracts like’ and the resulting dynamic seeks resolution for both client and therapist.

Around ten years ago, clients began coming to me with symptoms and experiences rooted in childhood pain and trauma. I found that I often resonated with their emotional pain and, as I began to explore this, I realised that I carried similar experiences. My acknowledgement and awareness of this allowed space for my own early trauma and, as the memories returned, I accepted that I too needed healing.

Acknowledgement was the beginning of my own healing journey and as it unfolded I recognised and accepted the fear that had been part of my life since early childhood.

Freedom From Fear

During the past ten years of treating clients, including babies and parents, and myself, I have become aware that fear is one of the most prevalent emotions, often hiding behind others. Fear can stem from emotional or physical pain that we have suffered in the past. It can be unconscious, buried so deeply that it influences our thoughts, feelings and actions without us really being aware of it.

The more I healed the more my true self emerged

Feelings of anger, deep anxiety, depression and overwhelm, and behaviours like lashing out, withdrawing, addiction and self-harm, can all stem from fear. They can stem from childhood experiences, our early relationships, our upbringing, our education, our society, from the way we were taught to deal or not to deal with emotions, and be triggered by the things we watch, books that we read, from family, friends, colleagues or people we admire.

Expressions of fear are seen now more than ever. For the past year and half of the Covid-19 pandemic, global fear of the unknown and the stress of uncertainty has impacted many lives, including our own. Throughout, fear and worry about the mental and physical health of loved ones and friends, about jobs and finances, have been pervasive. In some, isolation from and/or loss of loved ones have left deep emotional trauma. In others, fear and worry converted into anger and frustration with devastating impact for partners and families. These experiences may impact not just the people directly affected but also future generations

The Question is How Do We Move Forward, Individually and Collectively?

I grew up with parents who were born at the time of the second world war and fear was a constant factor in their lives; fear of not getting enough food, fear of getting hurt, fear of not having enough money to support the family.

In myself, I believe that this legacy of fear manifested primarily as self-reliance. I became a ‘doer’, generally resilient and solutions oriented when dealing with my worries, and proactive about controlling my life and pursuing my interests in health and healing without dependence on others. However, as I shared in my previous article “Transformation’ (Issue 82), it wasn’t until I started my CST training that I realised how ungrounded I was, and how easily fears and worries unbalanced me.

So, part of my healing journey has been to free myself of inherited and acquired fears, unconscious and conscious. The more I healed the more my true self emerged – a more grounded and positive individual, searching for ways to deal with life and emotions. I supported this new self-awareness with personal craniosacral sessions, energy healing, and meditation, ultimately leading to a different level of being that has enabled me to move forward with a greater sense of energy, direction and focus.

Growth Through Healing

The experience of recognising and accepting my need of healing taught me that as therapists we are still vulnerable and need to deal with all that we carry and hold; without doing that, there is no growth or expansion as a person or as a therapist. When we think that others are in more need of healing than ourselves, and shut our hearts to our own pain, we deny our own healing.

This is not to say that we can’t help others until we have healed ourselves. Yet, with self-healing, I believe we become more effective therapists.

It is my belief that the very act of opening our hearts to serve and help another person creates a healing dynamic. When the therapist connects to their heart first, acknowledging their emotional pain and fear, self-doubt and insecurities, the treatment becomes a powerful healing tool for both them and their client.

HEALING STRATEGIES AND THERAPEUTIC SELF-HEALING TOOLS

The self-healing journey is different for everyone, but it shares the same starting point – an intention to heal yourself of conscious and unconscious emotional pain and fear, and then finding the best support for that process.

My own journey to self-healing taught me that a mix of therapeutic and practical tools are useful. Some of the techniques that have helped me include:

Treat yourself: I found craniosacral sessions and energy healing helped me connect with the resources I needed to heal. And, I found that even during the worst times of the pandemic, when I myself had Covid-19, CST and meditation were the best tools that I had to resource myself and let go of personal fears and worries. My suggestion for therapists is to have regular CST treatments. And, if you become aware of or triggered by a reflected pain and/or fear during a treatment, it is worth exploring that in supervision or with another therapy.

Meditation: Learning to meditate is almost an essential part of a therapist’s growth and development, helping to ground, be centred and present. Through meditation, I learned to connect to my true heart; by breathing into it with intention, I can access and feel the infinite love and peace that is there for us all at any time. In this space, the solution for resolving your fear might come up easily. Also, meditative breathing techniques down regulate the nervous system, calming the mind from worries and fears. If you find it difficult to meditate at stressful times, there are many apps that provide guided meditations and breathing techniques.

Cultivate self-awareness: A type of self-healing is to recognise your own emotions and thought patterns and how they shape the way you think and behave towards yourself and others. A talking therapy can help you understand yourself and equip you to deal with any painful or traumatic emotions and memories that may come up.

Feel the fear: About 20 years ago, I read a book by author Susan Jeffers called “Feel the fear and do it anyway”. While I no longer remember the specifics, the title has stuck with me, reminding me about the importance of intention and readiness in letting go of fear; about how empowering it is to acknowledge fear and choose to overcome it.

This is relevant in our present situation where many feel strong anxiety about returning to work or social environments, and a question that you could ask yourself is, ‘what would I rather do, live my life with a job that I love, or freeze and stop living for the next few years?’.

It might sound obvious but just asking it of ourselves – of our system – can help us see, understand and choose to overcome what is blocking us. Once we can see, feel and name our fears, we can apply our therapeutic tools to let go of them, freeing us to move forward.

NLP: As a neuro-linguistic practitioner, I offer some NLP techniques for certain CST clients who I feel may benefit from it. I often use a technique called “time-line technique”, where the client makes a guided journey to the first time they encountered a specific emotion, e.g. fear. Usually, it is a formative emotion that has been present from birth to six years old, and I ask the client to suggest different resources for dealing with the event that triggered the specific emotion. This technique can be profoundly empowering and the resources can be accessed at any time the original emotion returns. It has had a major impact on many of my clients, and can be done online or face to face when treating, or as a self-care technique once it has been learned.

© Maria Esposito BSc (Hons) R-Nutritional Therapist – NAET for allergies – R-Craniosacral Therapist – NLP – Angel Guide Certified – Mindfulness Meditation teacher- Resilient heart (heart-Math)

Children anxiety is real and can be helped with craniosacral therapy

I have seen many children lately, mainly with anxiety related disorders. This was due to lack of sleep, too much going on in their lives, and too many things to do, as well as long days at school and home.

I have seen this, especially near the time that children need to change from one school to another. Parents starts to panic and start stressing their children on where is the best school for them, this can be from primary to secondary and from secondary to A levels.

I also seen different background from strict religious background to atheist and more. The amount that is put on the child, either for necessity and or for learning lots of more things is massive.

This means they have so much more information that they need to have, and their sleep is restlessness and have little or none deep sleep.

This leads to the child starting the day tired and ending up being irritated, eating more sugars than they need to, to feed their stress pathway; jumping up and down for a while, than getting exhausted, bypassing their sleep time, and getting even more tired; till they start getting anxious, due to the cortisol being high all the time, and getting the adrenaline rush, which makes them want to fight, run, or freeze. They start having ticks and do things to relieve their stress mode, sometimes with no results. They start fighting with their siblings and their parents, start breathing from their chest, which will give less oxygen. End results, they will be exhausted by the end of the day, and cannot catch up with that exhaustion, till they get ill, quite often, which is the body stopping them from carrying on the way they are carrying on.

This cycle of stress, irritation, ticks, and exhaustion illness, will carry on for the entire months of school, till the summer, and it carries on at times into adulthood. Where they will start running, having a stressful job and keep being deprived of rest, sleep and mental stability.

Can you see the cycle here? So start looking at signs of restlessness into your child, or children behaviour and start thinking if your child is overwhelmed with activities and less rest time. How do they breath? Can they breathe well? Are they having ticks, or even frequent illnesses? Are they anxious or fearful of being left alone? Do they want your attention all the time? Do they talk all the time, without resting their mind? Or are they quite all the time, too much in their head already?

Craniosacral therapy, will help getting their system quieter, calmer and more settle in themselves, with less anxiety. I teach the heartmath breathing technique for parents to teach their children and do some breathing technique themselves, so that they can settle and be present with their children as well.

This will benefit the children as well as the parents, has it will allow presence, space and time to be quite and relax the body and mind, with a physiological, change, mental and spiritual calmness.

© Maria Esposito BSc (Hons) R-Nutritional Therapist – NAET for allergies – R-Craniosacral Therapist – NLP – Angel Guide Certified – Mindfulness Meditation teacher- Resilient heart (heartMath)

Importance of a baby crawling and connection with dyslexia

Science is great in proving things that there was a possible theoretical point to start with. Years ago, when I was studying for my Nutritional degree, I saw some research regarding the connection between crawling or mainly not crawling and hand and eye coordination, that would affect the child later in life and have a poor eye and hand coordination.

Looking at some studies now, they can now show that the crawling part is essential for writing and other brain activity that would be affected by the same part. I remember also reading the book, “The well balance child”, by Sally Goddard Blythe, where they mentioned that crawling would switch off one reflex in the body, so that another reflex would switch on, and facilitate the hand and eye coordination for later in life. The tummy time and other baby developments are essential for every stage of the baby to have a balanced life.

Now sometimes doctor will see this if it is quite severe, others times, they will ignore it as nothing serious. As a parent, I remember by reading the article and I made sure that my son would crawl first, and when I see babies and mothers in my clinic, I always suggest that they let the baby crawl first, even if the baby wants to walk and bypass the step.

Buying a tunnel tent, where parents and baby can craw, through might also help that development, if you see that the baby wants to walk instead of crawling.

I was talking to somebody recently and they mentioned that their daughter had dyslexia and so did they as they found out, and the doctor mentioned to them, that because they did not crawl, that was one of the reasons. Of course, if your child did not crawl, and they are old, you cannot do much about it, but I still remember that you can take them playing in the soft play area, if they are young enough, so that they can crawl through the games and that could still make a difference. If you are an adult, of course does not mean that you cannot live a normal life, it can be a bit more challenging at times, but I am also sure that the brain will find a way to deal with things in a different way and still function quite well.

If, however, you can still have the opportunity to change something in your baby life, than make sure that they can crawl.

Craniosacral therapy, can check any possible restriction of the spine, that might lead to the baby reflex not being switch on or off and help with any possible baby birth trauma, small or big.

© Maria Esposito BSc (Hons) R-Nutritional Therapist – NAET for allergies – R-Craniosacral Therapist – NLP – Angel Guide Certified – Mindfulness Meditation teacher- Resilient heart (heartMath)

Heart connection is the key to healing yourself, healing your children and healing the world!

I have done many courses, workshops in the past 26 years, as a holistic therapist. I have gone through the scientific pathway, with my Degree in Nutritional Therapy, and find myself with craniosacral therapy doing both scientific and spiritual healing. The last two mindfulness meditation and the Resilient Heart from the Heart Math method got me into understanding that no matter how you look at it, the HEART is the centre of the human being wellbeing.

From the scientific point the heart will settle the brain, when it is too busy looking at too many things that do not matter anymore or is overwhelmed with worries that have been created by a longstanding life, and the society that you grow up with, as well as Global worries and fears. The internet has been a great way to connect very quickly to each other, and also the withdraw from each other and our own face to face communication. It has been a blessing during the pandemic for many people, and a damage for others.

No matter how I look at the human health though, from the nutritional point of view, from allergies, to the physical and emotional trauma, no matter how big or small it is, from Grieving to pain and hurt, all stem from healing the heart, reconnect to the heart and even think with the heart.

When I work with babies and mothers birth trauma, I work with the mothers as well, as the trauma is as big as the mothers and carer feels it is. The baby usually is very quick at letting it go with a couple of sessions, unless there is a need to work a bit more on the physical adjustments. The carer though needs a bit more time to heal her heart, as usually, guilt, worry and a feeling of vulnerability or unable to help a little baby human that cries with pain, is too much to bear for the mother’s heart.

Physically you can train your heart to control your thoughts, emotions and worries, by breathing through it and slowing down your heartbeat, so that the brain does not think you are in danger and trigger the FIGHT and FLIGHT response, or after a long time, the FREEZE response. The fear response or any danger response, is triggered automatically, with every thought that you have that it gives the signal of danger, every strong emotion such as anger, hurt, pain and fear that you have. Any smell that you feel is a reminder of a trauma from childhood or any other time, anything that you see or read that is a trauma, and everything that you sense that is danger. It can be your boss who screams at you every time you do something or even sees you, or taking the underground when you feel that you cannot breathe.

All the above are trigger that will automatically and involuntary to your command will trigger the Amygdala (the stress response), and hence the Hypothalamus to set up the cascade of neurotransmitters and hormones for you to cope with whatever danger there is. Now on the opposite way, when that stress response, has been there, day and night for a long time, the body will trigger the Freeze response, and hence leads to depression, unemotional response, or even not caring much for the life itself or the world around you. The person or even babies and children feel in constant danger and hence anxiety and panic attack will be triggered from seemingly nowhere. In realty it has been brewing for a long time, to the point of getting overwhelmed.

The pandemic did just that for many people, and hence some, are still in the FREEZE mode, they have not been able to move on from the fear of either catching a virus, that right now, has changed its form and is much lighter than it was two years ago.

I have been working from the heart since I started working more than 26 years ago, and I kept healing my own heart with various courses, from craniosacral therapy to healing and more. Scientifically and spiritually, many traumas, big or small, depending on how the child or adult see their trauma, you might have an imprint of your own trauma in your physical body, that shows up as pain or injury of the body, or you might even have an imprint from your ancestor’s trauma, where a collective trauma happened 100 years or even 1000 years ago, and was passed on from generation to generation, through the trauma of the wars, that keep repeating itself in various countries around the World.

There are some researches that mention that the heart is a magnetic field, and the healed heart, has a bigger magnetic field that can reach everyone around them, and healing them as well. The further magnetic field of the heart that they had tested was about 3 feet (0.90 cm) around the person body. I believe that with people like the monks, Buddha, and other healers, might reach even further out to heal the people around them.

If we can imagine or even believe that we are all one, and by healing ourselves, we can heal our own children, or even people around and hence the World, then it is worth starting to heal.

From babies, children to adults, healing the small or big trauma from a distance in some way, when your body and mind is ready to deal with them, is one of the keys to change your life and the life of others in a more positive and fulfilling way.

I will run and introduction to heart meditation with mindfulness meditation (being present), and heartmath meditation to see how quickly you can re-connect to your heart, and with your practice and or treatments with craniosacral therapy, can change your life for the better!

Click here to read more about the online meditation, and click here to read more about craniosacral therapy.

© Maria Esposito BSc (Hons) R-Nutritional Therapist – NAET for allergies – R-Craniosacral Therapist – NLP – Angel Guide Certified – Mindfulness Meditation teacher- The Resilient Heart

Mindfulness meditation connecting to the heart, HeartMath tools and NLP tools combined together.

An introduction to the 8 weeks mindfulness meditation, combined with HeartMath
tools and NLP with each week. You can do just the introduction and if you feel
the benefit you can sign up for the 8 weeks online course. This is a unique
combination! Try it to see the benefit of empowering yourself and taking your
life back to yourself step by step! To book click below to pay via pay-pal.

Introduction to mindfulness meditation, combined with working with the
heart. Special introduction starting from healing the heart meditation.
Combined with the HeartMath method. A unique meditation that will empower you
to be present and heal your heart little by little. A combination of tools from
mindfulness meditation to be present in everyday life, and reducing your worry
and anxiety, combined with the HeartMath tools, gives you an insight of what
you can be when you silence your mind of what does not serve you anymore and connect to your heart!

We finish with anchoring joy and enthusiasm into your heart, so that you can
access it at any time, by just touching
your heart! This is part of NLP tools.

Programme for the 1 hour and half

  • Introduction to mindfulness talk and HeartMath 10 minutes         
  • 1st gentle mindfulness exercise – 5 minutes
  • HeartMath breathing into the heart 5 minutes
  • Talking about the experience of the two meditations, sharing through the chat or writing it down, no obligation in sharing with the group. This is an important part of mindfulness meditation.
  • 2nd gentle mindfulness exercise combined with HeartMath 10 minutes
  • Talking about this experience through the chat or speaking for anyone that would like to share, no obligation on sharing, you can just write it down for yourself.
  • Anchoring Joy or Enthusiasm into our heart to connect to it at any time. This is an NLP tool to empower you to feel joy and enthusiasm about life itself!

Some of the benefits of mindfulness documented in research

There is published scientific evidence that mindfulness can assist with: For
corporates the People at the management level and the people who work with them
will have their work and life positively impacted by just 8 weeks of
Mindfulness meditation in groups, and also individual sessions, to deal with
possible mental and emotional wellbeing with craniosacral therapy, Neuro
linguistic programming and healthy lifestyle. The person wellbeing will make a
huge difference to themselves and the people they work for!

Let’s get back to a normality of life within the big changes that happened
since the pandemic started!

Reduces anxiety and panic attack are two of the many benefits:

● Stress reduction

● Clarity and focus

● Greater resilience

● Enhanced creativity

● Improved relationships

● Improved concentration

● Rapport and communication

● Improved health and wellbeing

● Greater confidence and self-esteem

● Ability to have better quality sleep

● Reduced anxiety and depression

● Improved work-life balance

● Greater work satisfaction

● Memory enhancement

● Intuitive ability

● Pain reduction

Resilience of the heart – productivity and creativity – emotional
intelligence – stress reduction and wellbeing.

One and half hour mindfulness meditation, connecting and healing the heart from 7pm till non-refundable £ 17.77.

            The meditation will be video recorded, if you do not want your real name or video on please change it accordingly. The link recording will be given only to the participants.

A link will be emailed to you afterwards, please give 48 hours for the link
to be email to your pay-pal email link. If you do not receive the link, please
do email me to esposito_m@yahoo.co.uk
 or text me on 07956-662954 UK. Thank you

The 9 -Attitudes of Mindfulness Meditation – Jon Kabat-Zinn

Non-Judgment:

Impartial witnessing, observing your evaluations and categorizations. Noticing the automatic habit of labelling our experience as good, bad or neutral. Habit of
judging locks us into an automatic reaction without being aware of them, where
they do not have any objective basis. Once we are aware of out judging, then we
can choose actions and behaviours more consciously, rather than automatically
reacting to the situations in our environment. This principle is useful as we
start to engage in a new mindfulness practice that our mind may judge as boring
or a waste of time.

Patience:

Allowing things to unfold in their time, bringing patience to ourselves and others.
This is an understanding that sometimes things must unfold in their own
time. This principle reminds us to be patient with ourselves as our mind is
stretched in new ways. Patience is a helpful quality to invoke when the mind is
agitated. To be patient, is to be open to each moment as it unfolds knowing
that like the butterfly, that some things can only unfold in their own time.
So, when starting out your mindfulness practice or anything else please stick
through whatever takes place trusting that some things will make more sense
after you have practiced them for a while.


Beginner’s Mind:
Willing
to see things as if for the first time.  We let our beliefs about a
situation prevent us from seeing things as they really are. No moment is the
same as any other. Beginner’s mind allows us to be receptive to new
possibilities and prevents us from getting stuck in our mind, which often
thinks it knows more than it actually does. Try to cultivate your own
beginner’s mind as an experiment. The next time you see someone familiar,
notice if you are seeing the person with fresh eyes or through the lens of your
beliefs about that person. When you are out walking, see if you are noticing
things, you might have overlooked before. Developing beginner’s mind opens you
to possibilities in life you may be missing out on, because you are viewing
everything through the lens shaped by past experiences, that is not aware of
what else there is to learn and explore.

Trust: Developing trust in your
feelings and yourself is an integral part of the mindfulness practice. The act
of trusting yourself and your basic wisdom, is an important aspect of the
mindfulness training.  If you are feeling strongly about something, it is
important to attend to that, rather than ignore it because an outside authority
is telling you to do so. Mindfulness is an objective process of inquiry and
accepting what people of ‘authority’ tell you without questioning the validity
of it for yourself is against the basic premise of mindfulness. It is important
to stay open and learn from other sources but ultimately you have to live your
life and make your choices that feel right to you. It is almost easier to trust
external authorities to tell us how to live our lives. Mindfulness involves
practicing trusting your own feelings and that doesn’t mean you react based
upon all your feelings but that you explore any feelings that show up fully to
see what they are telling you about a situation and then you trust yourself to
come up with the right action.


Non-striving
:
Non-goal oriented, remaining unattached to outcome or achievement. Even though
everyone undertaking mindfulness practice has some goals intentions while they
are taking their training, at the time of mindfulness practice itself, simply
do the practice without any expectations. When you set expectations, such as
feeling more relaxed, you are introducing conditions that don’t allow you to be
fully present with what is, because you are trying to change the present to be
something else. If you are trying to change the present then you are not being
with what is, which is what the mindfulness training is. Remember to allow
anything and everything that you experience from moment to moment to be there,
because it already is. If you are tensed, just pay attention to the tension. If
you are criticizing yourself, just observe the activity of the judging mind.
Non-striving may be the most difficult of all the principles because in our
culture we are taught to be goal-oriented and to be constantly doing something
in order to reach our goals. In mindfulness you will reach your goals by not
trying to change the present but by being present to whatever arises, and in
that way, you will find that the goals are ultimately reached. This is perhaps
something you will need to experience for yourself to really understand.


Acceptance
:

Open to seeing and acknowledging things as they are. It does not mean approval or
resignation. Acceptance is the willingness to see things as they really are.
Acceptance does not mean that you have to be satisfied with the way things are
or that you don’t do anything to change what you don’t like. When you have the
ability to see things as they are you free up energy to take the appropriate
actions, instead of working with a mind that is clouded by denial, prejudices,
fears, and self-judgments.


Letting go:

Non-attachment and the ability to put aside the tendency to elevate some
aspects of our experience and to reject others. Letting go is a way of letting
things be, of accepting things as they are. When you observe your mind grasping
or pushing away, you can remind yourself to let go of the impulse to grasp or
push away and see what happens.


Gratitude
:

Being thankful for the little things in life, can be very rewarding. Not taking our
body for granted is also very rewarding for ourselves. Being thankful for what
works in our body and mind is rewarding. Give thanks to our own body, inside
and outside, e.g., gives thanks to our legs, our heart, our liver, our spleen,
etc. Being thankful for the people who we have in our lives, that supports us,
being thankful for our food, the earth that supply our food, and more.


Generosity:

Give to others, your time, or things that they need. Give attention to others, not for a reward but for the only reason that you would like to help others, that you
would like to give to others, to make them feel better.

© Maria Esposito BSc (Hons) R-Nutritional Therapist – NAET – R-Craniosacral Therapist –
NLP Practitioner – Certified Angel Guide – Meditation/Mindfulness teacher

Craniosacral – NLP and mindfulness changing how you see things to move forward – Connect to your higher brain!

After reading many books and articles about the brain and mind, I found that there is so much in common with the healing of the brain, and how much you can the brain do, if given the opportunity. While healing babies and children with craniosacral therapy, I realized that what I am doing, is given their brain an opportunity to heal the body and find another way of developing that works for them, hence healing themselves. The common things is also with adults, the difference with adults is that their own resistance, beliefs and upbringing, might stop them or delay the quick healing that the therapy would otherwise do. With the combination of NLP and Mindfulness the person is empowered to find another way of thinking and doing things that works for them, in order to heal, past and present trauma, or even blocks to their own being and being of themselves. The brain is an amazing healer, it can do miracles, if you allow it!

Brain copyright material

Try now with craniosacral therapy, or the combination with NLP and mindfulness meditation and living that you will be given if needed, as well as starting by changing your diet, or allergies. With the method NAET the over-reaction to food and the environment might diminish or go completely, as the brain reset to recognise what it has perceived as the enemy as part of itself. click here to read more about all the therapies.

© Maria Esposito BSc (Hons) R-Nutritional Therapist – NAET for allergies – R-Craniosacral Therapist – NLP – Angel Guide Certified – Mindfulness Meditation teacher-

Gilbert’s Syndrome what is it and what you can do about it?

Gilbert’s syndrome (GS)

GS is another possible reason for IBS. If you have this genetic predisposition, it means an enzyme in your liver is genetically lacking or impaired. Bilirubin is formed in the liver by the breakdown of hemoglobin cells, and is an orange-yellow color (commonly known as red blood cell breakdown)

Bilirubin needs to be conjugated with another component in the liver in order to be eliminated wither via urine or feces. If you have this genetic predisposition and you are on a diet that is not appropriate for you, as well as under stress and/or taking any extra medication, then you might get a build-up of bilirubin in the blood stream. If you have GS, then you may notice a yellowing of the white part of your eyes, or in some cases yellowing of the skin. This condition can be worsened by stress, drinking alcohol, eating too much sugar, too much caffeine, chocolate, too many nuts, fried food, junk food, fizzy drinks, having a menstrual cycle, or taking drugs or medications, paracetamol or the contraceptive pill, or any other form of hormones, can all increase your bilirubin level leading to a possible increase of allergies. This condition is usually non-harmful, if is controlled well with the diet and your diet is adjusted appropriately i.e. low in toxins.

It can, however, become a problem if there is an overload of toxins, with an increase jaundice and possibly brain fog. I have this condition in my family and it can become dangerous if not enough attention to the diet and lifestyle is paid. The mild hyperbilirubinemia can have an antioxidant effect, as it is a scavenger of reactive oxygen species. This reduces the oxidative stress in your cells and blood stream, hence reducing damaging of your cell, and vascular cell membrane, hence reducing arteriosclerosis, which is a problem in ischemic heart disease and diabetic vascular complications.  

GS can be diagnosed by a doctor who will test the total unconjugated bilirubin, and if it is high for no other medical reasons, then you know that you have it and if is higher than 25 might be causing your IBS symptoms.

My dietary suggestions with GS are to drink plenty of water (up to 2 liters a day or till your urine is clear in color instead of yellow), eat meals with lipid in that, as that will reduce bilirubin level, as it needs fats or lipid to be excreted. Do not fast for long. Eat something or another every 3 to 4 hours (fish is really good, eggs as well), with plenty of vegetables, olive oil, avocadoes, and glutathione supporting vitamins for the support of the liver detox, as well as take dietary supplements such as probiotics and glutamine to repair your intestinal tract. Sunlight breaks down excess bilirubin from your skin naturally so it is worth getting some sunshine as well.

In people with normal liver detox of bilirubin, sometimes that is achieved by given statins, which will inhibit the glucuronidation liver pathway and hence increase the anti-oxidant effect of mild hyperbilirubinemia

The above has been taken from my book “Clinical experience of Irritable Bowel Syndrome” by Maria Esposito – sold on amazon click here to buy

© Maria Esposito BSc (Hons) R-Nutritional Therapist – NAET for allergies – R-Craniosacral Therapist – NLP – Angel Guide Certified – Mindfulness –

Opening Hours and prices

Monday to Friday we are open week day from 9am till 5pm as last session, for online and face to face therapies.

Working North London N15 6HA. Full address given on booking.

One or two Saturdays a month 9am till 5pm.

Sundays closed.

Please note: Prices at Crouch End clinic is £ 75.00 for 1 hour venue:

The Life by Margot at Crouch End, 84 Park Road London N8 8JQ

£ 75.00 per 1 hour for craniosacral therapy or nutrition for pregnancy consultation for 1 hour. This needs to be paid on booking via bank transfer to Maria Esposito TSB  code 308472 account 24603860.

Home visits for babies available when possible in North London N15/ N16 or any other area reachable by underground nearby or for two or more sessions at extra £ 25.00 per session.

Please note that for new people now payments needs to be in advanced at booking to hold the booking, via bank transfer. See below for details.

The following prices are for online and face to face sessions from my home only (N15 6HA)

  • Nutritional Therapy consultation with NAET testing and dietary suggestions and any first nutritional consultation is £ 120.00 (1 hour and half from N15 6HA) Add 25 pounds for Crouch End clinic)
  • Follow up nutritional advice and NAET treatment 1 hour £ 60.00
  • Craniosacral therapy for babies, children and adults 1 hour £ 60.00
  • Neuro linguistic programming (NLP) 1 hour £ 60.00
  • Distance healing online £ 60.00 (1 hour)
  • 1st Consultation (1 hour and half) £ 120.00
  • NLP and any follow ups online £ 60.00 (1 hour),
  • Elimination of phobias and negative fears (1 hour) with NLP £ 60.00
  • Support the elimination of smoking with NLP (1 Hour per session) £ 60.00
  • Mindfulness 121 sessions £ 60.00 (1 hour)

Payment via bank transfer to Maria Esposito TSB  code 308472 account 24603860 at booking or the latest a day in advance.

© Maria Esposito BSc (Hons) R-Nutritional Therapists – NAET – R-Craniosacral therapist – NLP practitioner – Certified Angel Guide – Mindfulness Meditation teacher – The resilient Heart (HeartMath) meditation and Certified Clinical Trauma Professional (CCTP) – MBant – M-CSTA – CHNC registered

Donation based craniosacral therapy drop in clinic for babies and adults

Craniosacral drop-in clinic

Tuesdays mornings 9.20-11.30pm (do come in by 9.10am to write your name down) at: Every Tuesdays except on School half-terms

Hornsey Vale Community Centre  60 Mayfield Road N8 9LP.

The Clinic is non-appointment based, closed during school holidays and is for all – babies, children and adults. Close for Christmas restarts on the 9th of January 2024. Private sessions from 3rd of January available

Arriving at the clinic around 9.10am is recommended to secure a time-slot for your session as at time could be very busy. The clinic is run on a first come, first served basis.

I will be asking to fill in a simple form for adults and for your baby/children. 

All the notes and details will be kept by the individual leader that works on that day.

Maria Esposito BSc (Hons) and Kate Leftley are running the clinic in alternate weeks (Forms need to be filled for each of us as we cannot share them)

The duration of the session is 20 minutes, but the results are amazing and powerful, from babies to adults even in a short time. There will be one to a max of two people working on you.

This is cash donation based clinic and any donation will be appreciated so that the next person can attend the clinic, and we can carry on with the clinic. There is no minimum or max donation.

The clinic is closed during Haringey school half terms

Private sessions are still available on school half terms (at N15 6HA)

This community clinic was set up by our wonderful colleague Richard Kramer 20 years ago and thanks to his determination and love for the Craniosacral therapy that this clinic is very successful.

Craniosacral therapy for Babies

Craniosacral therapy is a very gentle but powerful therapy. Babies love the treatment and connect to it very well (there is no manipulation of any kind). Any type of trauma from minor to bigger can be relieved with one or two treatments.

Things that CST can work on:

  • Colic’s which are very frequent in babies
  • Traumatic birth (C-section- Forceps – Ventouse, very fast birth, etc.)
  • Frequency of throwing up the milk
  • Sleepless babies
  • Connection with mother and babies (the mother needs to be treated as well as the baby for both reflux and connection with the baby)
  • What I worked on with CST are:
  • Teething
  • Coughing
  • Frequent colds for the babies, Toddlers and children

Craniosacral Therapy for adults

Cranio-sacral therapy is a subtle and profound healing form.

In a typical cranio-sacral session, you will usually lie fully-clothed on a treatment couch. The therapist will make contact by placing their hands usually lightly on your body and tuning in. The first thing you will probably notice is a sense of deep relaxation, which will generally last throughout the session. This release of tension often extends into everyday life.

drop in photo

CST work on the balancing the autonomic nervous system, to allow the body system to be calmer, relaxed and embrace life in a calm way.

Sometimes the benefits are not immediately noticeable but become obvious on returning to a familiar environment. The work is often deeply moving and exhilarating.

The benefit can also be noticed after few days in some people. The experience is different from each baby, child or adult according to their own need of balance and adjustments.

click here to read more about CST

© Maria Esposito BSc (Hons) R-Nutritional Therapists – NAET – R-Craniosacral therapist – NLP practitioner – Certified Angel Guide – Mindfulness Meditation teacher – The resilient Heart (HeartMath) meditation and Certified Clinical Trauma Professional (CCTP) – MBant – M-CSTA – CHNC registered

WORK SHADOWING for qualified Craniosacral Therapists for CPD

WORK SHADOWING for qualified Craniosacral Therapists:

The clinic is held weekly (only on school terms) and is held at the Hornsey Vale Community Centre, 90 Mayfield Road N8 9LP

It should be noted that the clinics will be led by Maria Esposito RCST only for the time being.

The clinic caters for babies, children and adults. Some clinics only adults show up and working with them is as rewarding as with babies for your experience.

It’s held on Tuesday mornings starting at 9.20am and finishes at 11.30pm, for the public but for the therapists to be there by 9.00am to help set up. We will have a hour or more / to discuss the morning work over a coffee, which is part of the CPD.

As a therapist you will work with me on a person or a baby or sometimes working on the adult and if you have enough experience with babies we might swap after I have worked on the baby. This is a community clinic and many issue may arise, trauma and more, as we have only about 20 minutes on each client, we tend to attend one small thing at the time and the majority is mainly grounding the person and allowing them to be present while addressing their life challenges.

Sometimes if appropriate I allowing two therapists at the time to attend the clinic now, when I am running it only, as this can be used for practicing on each other if no clients attend the clinic, which it will be still part of a CPD format as peer practicing. Either way you will have things to do and discuss as part of CPD. 

Email me if you would like to attend the clinic.

In the course of the morning we can see up to 5 people, which equates to about 20 mins per session – some good work can be achieved in this time.

The Clinic can be full within a short space of time, and usually it is.  But occasionally only 2 or 3 people turn up and no babies!  or to start with it might be no babies at all. It’s quite unpredictable.

We’ll usually ‘treat’ together. When the clinic finishes, we like to retire to a local café for an hour or so to discuss the morning’s work, this is part of the CPD, so please do allow this time if possible.

There is an attendance fee of £ 30.00 (to be paid on the day in cash), and you must have completed your diploma from a CSTA accredited college. In addition, you must be insured for practicing craniosacral therapy.

A receipt and attendance certificate for CSTA and up to 4 hours Primary CPD will be provided.

I encourage those assisting to book at least two Clinics for continuity, but this isn’t a precondition for attending.

Please provide the following information by Where you took your course, when you finished, your email address and phone number, evidence of your certificate and insurance. Email the information to me way before attending.

Payment on the day by cash or via bank transfer a day prior to attending my clinic.

Maria Esposito email: esposito_m@yahoo.co.uk  

Review from Rosa Ana and her experience of the clinic:

“When I finished the Craniosacral formation, I was not even considering the possibility of working with kids, it was totally out of my comfort zone. I do not have children of my own, which made it even more challenging. Having work shadowing  at the Hornsey Valley Community Centre in London with three highly experienced Craniosacral therapists;  Richard Kramer, Maria Esposito, and Zoe Rigby and seeing how the babies and adults were improving from appointment to appointment,  I was highly enthusiastic to give it a go at these two courses of “Healing Babies Trauma” by Maria Esposito”. See the rest of the review by clicking here

© Maria Esposito BSc (Hons) R-Nutritional Therapists – NAET – R-Craniosacral therapist – NLP practitioner – Certified Angel Guide – Mindfulness Meditation teacher – The resilient Heart (HeartMath) meditation and Certified Clinical Trauma Professional (CCTP) – MBant – M-CSTA – CHNC registered

Hayfever allergies – Supplements to reduce the histamine reactions

The hay-fever seasons has started well been under way for sometimes now. Apart for NAET method that I used to reduce and eliminate the pollen and hay-fever reactions, which I do in the winter, I usually suggest the following supplement to reduce the histamine reaction. It works really well and within about 20 minutes of taking them.

To treat it in winter with NAET method, you need to put a little water outside the window every few days till you stop sneezing, and for some is for the entire summer, for others is till September and others is only for a month in the summer. This is because each react to different pollen or spore from either the flowers or the grass or weed, etc. Pour the water every 3 days in a bigger jar that can fit in your freezer and then bring it during the winter when it is time to have a session with NAET. click here to read more about NAET treatments, or pass my website and information to people who need the treatments.

  • Vitamin C from 500 mg to 2000 mg a day in the worse time a day
  • Vitamin E 200 iu to 4oo iu a day
  • Quercetin follow the dosage suggested on the bottle
  • Oily fish up to 1000 mg a day (mixed EPA and DHA) a day
  • I would also suggest to have plenty of fruits and vegetables and healthy diet with non fried food or no take away food.
  • Alcohol would increase the stress level in the body or the toxins and therefore worsen the symptoms of hay-fever.
  • Vaseline inside your nostril to trap the pollen and spores.
  • Saline Nasal spray are very helpful to reduce the pollen accumulation.
  • Eye drops for the irritation of the eyes are also useful to reduce eyes symptoms.
  • Reducing dairy products and wheat and gluten also reduces the allergy symptoms as the food is harder to break down for some people.
  • Artichokes, chicory and any bitter green vegetables can help the liver to detox.
  • Drink up to 2 liters of water a day, throughout the day to help the body to run smoothly and detox from the kidney, via urine.

WARNING: all the above supplements can thin the blood, if you are on any medication, consult your Doctor before taking them. 

Grounding and healing workshop for craniosacral therapists

Grounding and Healing Tools plus, for Craniosacral Therapists (6 Hours Primary CPD)  

Practical and theoretical workshop.

The workshop aim is to make the Therapists more grounded as well as teaching simple tools for our own clients, understand why we and others  might be ungrounded and work towards healing ourselves and others. This in our experience leads to a successful practice as well as safeguarding your own health and well-being.
The aim of the workshop is to give more knowledge to the therapists about grounding, healing and protecting themselves and their client.

  • Introduction to different grounding techniques, including how to deepen your own grounding, and tools to pass on to our clients.
  • Overview of chakras including their relevance in CST; how to use healing techniques to clear, cleanse, protect and balance themselves.  Again can be helpful tool to give clients to work with between sessions.
  • Using the chakras to close down, desensitize and protect the human energy field, and their environment, therapy room and couch etc.
  • Group discussion of unusual experiences, such as sensing or picking up information about the client empathically.
  • Clients who are having unusual experiences and how to work with them.
  • About 4 hours practical on tables and off table.

Here some of the comments from therapists who attended our workshops: Continue reading “Grounding and healing workshop for craniosacral therapists”

Craniosacral Therapy (CST)

Craniosacral therapy is a subtle and profound healing form.

In a typical craniosacral session, you will usually lie fully-clothed on a treatment couch. The therapist will make contact by placing their hands usually lightly on your body and tuning in. The first thing you will probably notice is a sense of deep relaxation, which will generally last throughout the session. This release of tension often extends into everyday life.

Often traumas from childhood are stored in our body or even cells, and those unconscious traumas, can be triggered at any time in the life of the adults. Quite often with a body injury or illness. Craniosacral therapy allows the body system to feel safe enough to show the trauma, big or small, at the time that the person is ready to deal with, usually when they feel safe enough to share or deal with whatever emotion is attached to that trauma. With mindfulness meditation and heart meditation, the person has a tool to be able to connect with their heart and deal with whatever comes up in a loving space. My work is to connect to my heart and the person heart to reach a stillness where anything is possible, and any healing is allowed to happen in a loving experience. Craniosacral therapy, does not force any trauma out without the person being ready. That is the magical part of this wonderful therapy.

Sometimes the benefits are not immediately noticeable but become obvious on returning to a familiar environment. The work is often deeply moving and exhilarating.

The benefit can also be noticed after few days in some people. The experience is different from each baby, child or adult according to their own need of balance and adjustments.

I use CST by itself or with Nutritional advice and NAET treatments to integrate the entire body mind system at a deeper level. I notice that the body respond much more to the NAET treatments and the person feels more complete and healthier in body and mind, each time by releasing old patterns and old issue stored in the body.

CST has been used for babies as soon as they come into life to help the baby system to settle into a normal rhythm and vitality. Very helpful for mothers as well as it help with rebalance the normal rhythmic motions of their system after their labor that is traumatic or not.

Mothers that have seen me for CS also see a benefit from the therapy when their children are teething. I would put an big advice to all mother to have their own treatments after birth and in time of stress as that helps the children as well. As mothers we are connected very much to our children and vice-versa. Quite often we forget that our emotional and physical health is as important as our children…

Testimonial: “We found that Luis was much calmer and present after the Craniosacral sessions. It had a very positive effect on him as well as on us”. click here to see more

My experience of Craniosacral therapy and my clients experience of what it does:

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  1. It is called craniosacral, because the of the spinal fluid going from the cranio to the sacral is what makes everything function well and properly. All the nerves and nerve communication from the brain to the body and from the body to the brain go through there and it is all connected like a tree with branches and roots. What the craniosacral therapist does is listening to the rhythm of that fluid and feel if there is any blockage in the body, memory cells of the tissue and the mind as well as the energetic field around that body to see if it is breathing well and properly. If there is a blockage just our training and knowledge will help the mother, baby and adult unblock the blockage and rebalance the system or body function.
  2. Memory cells – my experience with Craniosacral therapy was amazing. My labor and my son birth were very traumatic. My son kept having colds and coughs from the time I stopped breastfeeding at 14 months. As I did not want to give antibiotics all the time I sought for  other ways of dealing with that. Homeopathy vitamin C and nutrition helped to get rid of the colds or reduce them when he had them but he still kept having more colds and coughs that he should have had. So I took him to cranio-sacral and it took a while as I took him to the Student clinic but they got rid of his traumatic birth and finally his colds and coughs were reduced to once a year and now not even once a year. He can now fight the colds very easily and usually gets over anything much easier than any other child that I know. My own experience with CS was that even after 7 years since the labor my memory cells body still retained that trauma. I had epidural so I did not feel mentally any pain, but my body did. And all that pain and trauma was still pretty stored in my tissues. Finally I got rid of it with CS and it is amazing the difference it made even to my personal life physically and emotionally.
  3. Some of the children and babies that I treated with CS had some traumatic birth or even not and what some of the issues that reduced were:
  • Colic’s which are very frequent in babies,
  • Frequency of throwing up the milk
  • Sleeping better and more peacefully
  • Stronger connection with mother and babies (the mother needs to be treated as well as the baby for both Reflux and connection with the baby)
  • clinging babies or toddlers

I have also seen babies and children with

  • Teething problems,
  • Coughing that does not go away easily,
  • Frequent colds for the babies,
  • Toddlers and children with anxiety,
  • Over reaction to food and the environment
  • Irritation, which have led to a happier and more communicative toddler,
  • Night terror in toddlers and children in general.

Starting life with a great balance system is one of the huge benefit that the baby will have in coping any of the issue that life brings. Babies treated with CS have a more positive and happier attitude in life and feel more confident of their journey. They have a happier attitude in life and feel more confident of their journey.

 

© Maria Esposito BSc (Hons) R-Nutritional Therapists – NAET – R-Craniosacral therapist – PCI NLP Health practitioner – Certified Angel Guide – Mindfulness Meditation teacher – The resilient Heart (HeartMath) meditation and Certified Clinical Trauma Professional (CCTP) – MBant – M-CSTA – CHNC registered