Communications what it means to me

The past few years I have been trying to understand what communication means to various people and to me in particular. What if found path that I took either with friends, or past relationship or people in general including people who you had thought could communicate better their idea. I found that culture, upbringing and the state of mind of the person all contribute to what a person wants to communicate or understand of the communication between them and others. I read many books on communication or mis-communication and interpretation of facts and events. Reading books from Louise Hay, the Barefoot doctor to Marshall Rosenberg and many others, I found that communication is pretty much due to interpretation of the individual. Someone can be very angry for something else and if they are dealing with somebody else at that time they can understand or mis-understand pretty much what the person is saying so what happens is a fight between them or a break up of communication without really knowing the real reason for that. I think communication is the key to many problems and pretty much stem from not dealing with our own feelings and either burying them deep down into our mind, which it means living our lives in a survivor mode or not living our lives in full, or causing us to be always upset or angry with everybody, so attracting a lot of things that makes us complain all the time or feel like we are the victim of everybody else. Well there is much more to communication and I think reading some of the more self help book and or Marshall Rosemberg book is a start in opening up a bit. Cranio-Sacral Therapy quite often brings things up that we have buried deep down, but the good thing about it that it will bring them up when you are ready to deal with them and it gives a chance to the person to fulfill their lives in full which I think is an amazing and positive thing to do……..