Choices that we make in our lives

This is another knowledge that I have acquired since embracing a bit of Spirituality and working with cranio-sacral therapy, either receiving it or giving the treatment is  the importance and meaning of choices that we make in our life. Some choices are made for us and others we consciously make. Some are made because of fear of repercussion from our society and family and others because we are scared to make a mistake and we do not want to risk to be wrong or right sometimes. I found from my own  experience in meeting different people and working in complementary therapy that it is easier to go back to the negative pattern or paths because it is something that we know and we are familiar with, than take a different positive one because we do not know the outcome. Sometimes even if we know much more than other people and we are reassured that things will be great if we choose that path, for some of us it is still hard to make that step and we do not trust ourselves or our own inner intuition enough to make that step by ourselves. Some people even though are very independent, they still rely on others for emotional approval and they do not trust again their own judgment.  In this cases choices need to be made for them for both parties so that they can move again. Even though that choice is made only because of another person fear or not trust really that has to be made for the good of both of them.

I have learned lately that even though we might derail and make the wrong choice sometimes with a bit of luck and a bit of help from the Universe we come back to the right path and might step into the void, trusting that something will hold us and guide us through safely to that path. Other times the Universe get tired of trying to help us and gives up, leaving us with the wrong choice to carry maybe in the next life from our present soul. I am a bit stubborn and I am hopeful that people needs to be given more chances to change especially from the Universe as it is unfair if it gives up on us and would sadden me if that would happen. My opinion is that anybody has the ability to change and make that positive choice and my positive note on this is that if you trying harder to get on the right path for you, you will see signs everywhere saying you have made the right choice now, be confident, be happy and good things will come. For the ones that cannot make that step into another path yet, I would suggest to take a deep breath and try again if you would like to grow in all senses. Changes are scary but it is more scary to stay where you are for the fear of the unknown as that means that you cannot feel more that what you have felt so far and you either use alcohol or drug or any other form of addition including work to stop you from thinking or deal with the deeper issue or will encounter the same problems over and over again till you make that choice. Standing on our two feet and your believe will make yourself and others proud, even the ones that do not approve, they might even follow you as you will be an example for them ..